Would sending a message to a friend with benefits be considered a violation of privacy?

[Rodney]

So my friend with benefits changer her number and said she would contact me later in the day and didn't. I am thinking of asking her what happened over facebook would that be a violation of privacy? It is possible she changed her number over me but she never had said anything negative to me i'd imagine if she hated me she would tell me that after changing her number rather than tell me "Oh sorry changed my number i'll give you new one later.

[LINDA R]

It sounds like she's trying to avoid you..............therefore, 'get the hint', leave her alone and move on.

[Under Siege]

If I was in your shoes- I wouldn't contact this person, no. All relationships, even ones based on sex, you can't be too available. She said she'd contact you, so the ball is now in her court. You needn't make most of the effort, if she really wants to see you, she'll make it happen. Your time is valuable, so treat it that way, and let her see it that way.