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is she crazy? my friend isn't talking to me because i told her we can't meet until summer.?
04-08-2014, 06:44 PM
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is she crazy? my friend isn't talking to me because i told her we can't meet until summer.?
Hi, i am socially awkward but that's got very little to do with my question (i think). I am an introvert because of which i don't hang out with my friends a lot. there's this friend of mine, she used to be my only friend once, she's really possessive and she's always telling me that she'll always be my best friend and all no matter how many more friends i make in life. if she sees someone write lovely messages (like i miss you or i love you or stuff like that) on facebook (from other female friends of mine) she gets really upset and starts asking me whether i have "moved on" and whether i dont consider her my best friend Confused i know she's not lesbian but she's wierd. last summer i kept telling her that i couldn't meet her because i was busy with family and stuff but she would always get mad and say that i dont make time for her and stuff. i feel suffocated in this relationship, i try to send her fake "love you" "miss you" messages, but it seems really awkward. a few days ago, i told her that i can't see her until summer 2014 but she wanted to meet me in december holidays. and now she isn't replying to my messages, and 3 days ago i told her that let's meet up, but she still hasn't replied. she saw the message on fb (says "seen at 4:59pm") but she isn't replying. what should i do? should i forget about her? because she's depressed anyway and its mostly me who has to cheer her up and always be there for her. i feel like a therapist for her. on one hand, i don't want to be with her but i feel like she needs me (and my emotional support), she's just upset. on the other, i feel like she's making me depressed too so i should stay away from people like her (depressed). what should i do?

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04-08-2014, 06:54 PM
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You're in a tricky situation, seems to be that she is quite similar to a 'friend' i know - who happens to manipulative as well. She's guilt tripping you into staying with her, and that's not healthy at all.
This could be also why she is depressed, you're literally the only one she contacts, her insecurity is preventing her from making any new friends. I suggest you take a break in this friendship, keep in contact if you want but be careful, depression spreads like the plague and in the long term, you could be affected as well. Don't forget about her, but if she isn't replying - don't reply to her, because she may be doing this on purpose to goad you into staying with her. Don't fall for it, best of luck Smile

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