How do I keep myself occupied and entertained to ignore someone I have feelings for?

[Alexis]

I feel sick to my stomach and all I want to do is cry but I wont let myself. I'm just super upset! I've been talking to this guy for 7 months and I thought we liked each other and he lives in a different state but I spent all my time talking to him A LOT! I spent tons of time trying to perfect myself and try to be a better person for him! I just recently had this gut feeling that somethings not right and so I went searching around on meetme if anyone knew him. I finally found a couple of people that knew him personally and one person said he's a man whore. He acts like he's top shit and he has a new girl every week. Then I talked to his (girl) best friend and she said he's not a man whore but everyone thinks he is. Then she said but when he's single he does tend to like more than one girl at once and he falls for people too easily. Then she said just last week he asked out a girl. I'm extremely hurt and I KNOW I need to leave before I become even more of an emotional wreck. He told me he loved me and wanted to be with me when we're older and have kids together. He just lied about everything the worst part is, that if I leave, he will just find someone else to lie to and what not. I just can't believe this because all these months he was passionate, sweet, kind, caring and there was no signs of him doing anything bad. I'm so hurt! He has been single the whole time though that him and I have been loving each other. He's been liking other girls though and last week he asked someone out! Like what the heck! =( How do I ignore him and just keep myself occupied at home? I'm not good at leaving people I always come back because the pain is unbearable!

[Siena]

I'm so sorry. I totally get how you feel. Currently I have a HUGE crush on the most popular guy on my school who won't even look at me. I cannot stop think about kissing him making out with him hugging him. He's absolutely totally hot and GORGEOUS but he does NOT like me. He likes white (I'm white but still lol) blond rich skinny chicks so honey he's not worth ur time. !!!! Just talk with a friend or me lol and eat junk food and cry to let it all out. I love this guy too but me and u have to accept some things weren't meant to be xoxo stay strong

[esthefani]

I hate that feeling I'm going through the same thing. It's like everything you thought was right just came falling down in an instant. But if you want to stay busy. Just shut off your phone for a while don't go on any social media things .. go on Netflix or rent a movie or a few. Eat some ice cream and chips. Also iknow its hard not thinking bout him and stuff ... you will eventually have this urge of texting him or calling him trust me it happens .. the guy I was talking to also lives in another state. But if it makes you feel better write a letter about your feelings towards him. What you would say if he was right in front of you maybe put some inspirational music helps. I know it hurts but you hae to move on sometimes its not healthy for you. You have to be strong look in a mirror and you will realize that you don't need this guy to be happy. Because you're an amazing person. So good luck if you want change his name in your contacts yo "asshole " or "don't text him"