How do I confront my boyfriend about speaking to other girls?

[Georgia]

I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now but we were speaking to each other a while before that... And not long ago i found out his Facebook password but he doesn't know I have it. So obviously my first instinct was to go on his Facebook and see if he was talking to other girls and I was right. Every time we 'split up' he would pop up to other girls and the other day he told a girl he used to see that he still loved her but then we made up so I thought oh he must have just said it because he wanted a bit of attention from her so I left it. Then earlier today I went on his Facebook and he had popped up to another girl saying that he will be at her house in half an hour because he wanted to see her for a bit and she agreed. I don't know whether they have any history but that's not the point. He always accuses me of talking to other boys because he's guilty that he does it. I want to confront him about it so bad but I don't want him to know that I have his password for future reference if I get suspicious again. HELP PLEASE!!

[shOrtie]

Your own fault for snooping on him. Stop dating until you're mature enough.

[totoro79]

first, you making mistake by using his facebook, because it's a privacy thing. second, if you confront him and he knew you using his facebook then he will use that to be a reason to defense him self and say that you invdaded his privacy.

i think you should wait outside of his house until the girl and him joining together, then while they are meeting. you just come in and ask who the hell that was.

if i was you i walk a way and get another guys. i mean if a guy is liking another girl and not being faithful then he just another douche that is still alive and you should not abuse you self for some jerk

[Jonathan H]

you are the one whos wrong here, you are invading his privacy, if you two split up, then there is nothing wrong with him telling another girl he still loves her, and as for him going to see another girl, maybe he is just friends with her, theres nothing wrong with him having friends who are girls, now if he is more than friends with this girl, then theres a problem, but honestly, it sounds like you dont trust him... and if you dont trust him, you dont love him, you both sound to immature to be dating honestly

[maddibryer]

Your fault no offence!! Sorry

[carmen]

If he's talking to other girls he's not worth it period just tell him they told you he has been talking to other girls and if I were you I'd leave him find someone who isn't playing around with you and really cares you are worth much more

[Navi]

Keep your field of view open in terms of dating when it comes to being in a relationship with this particular guy. If there are other guys you like that give you attention don't shy away from them. You want trouble and heart break, keep up with the guy you're currently dealing with. Whether he talks to other girls or not is irrelevant. What is relevant is that you have your own life outside of him and what he does makes no difference to you.

If he chooses to pursue you even though you talk to other guys and have your own life outside of him (school and whatever you like doing on your spare time) and might not have time to hold his hand down the street, that is his choice. It is your choice to decide whether he is worth your time at that point.

Right now you are on the borderline of a disastrous relationship or choosing a path you know is right. Refocus your priorities. What is the most important thing to you right now? What might you be ignoring? Is this guy really that significant to you? Will he be in the future? Think what could you be doing right now at this moment that you aren't. Write down what it is you should be doing. This is your to-do list. Do it.