Is my boyfriend over her...?

[Aria]

Signs he's not over her:
a) he told me the first night about one of the girls he's been with was for three years/that she wasn't great and made a negative/weird facial expression. I said no, she was probably nice. he told me we didn't need to talk about her.
b) he was joking with his friends about a sex party at Brown (which he brought up randomly), which is where his ex goes... he was thinking about a previous conversation with her (saw from messages)
c) he told me to cut my hair when I said I might want to cut it... pointed to the same length as his ex... might be coincidence though
d) I told him that I once had a guy ask me for nudes and he told me a guy used to ask his girlfriend at the time for them and that it made him really mad. he referred to her as his girlfriend not his ex.
e) we were joking once and he was pretending to be somebody else/would ask me questions. he said hi my name is julie. (his ex girlfriend's name).. this was the first major red flag for me..
they have been broken up for two. didn't know they still communicated until saw text on his phone asking him if he got her voicemail.
f) still has fb pictures of her/is on tinder
things that work in my favor.. said he liked me most out of all girls ever/i was the best at sex/ saw messages on his facebook and are primarily her contacting him.. not sure about texts, but he obviously did not respond to her voicemail even though he had been talking to me that week. i asked him if he still had feelings he said no.
for the record I have broken up with him and am looking for closure of some sorts. I will NOT get back together with him, as I did not feel happy or secure in the relationship. ALSO i feel kind of aggravated because it's been about two weeks and he apparently liked his ex's facebook picture according to my friends... I just feel very disrespected/upset because I feel like I invested so much time and he really did not care/only cared about her...

[SoaringSky]

Hunny I think you know the answer. The clear answer is: YES, he was very much so still "into" his ex girlfriend. Either that or he was a just a complete ass hole. Anyway you were correct to break up with him for your own sake it would not have been a healthy relationship if continued. Hope I helped confirm your suspicions if even a little! Hope you find happiness good luck!

[SilverFang]

You did the right thing. Clearly he wasn't over his ex, and they still talk. But you got out of it. You have self-respect and didn't stick around to be the rebound girl.

Just cut him out of your life, and ignore him.

It could be worse. A girl I know. Just call her 7. She's been sleeping with a guy that has a girlfriend. He ignores 7, blocks her on social media when she tries to talk to him. He threatens to leave her sometimes if she doesn't comply to his wants. Likes "degrading" her in the bedroom. Calls her his little slut. Etc. But he devotes most of his time to his girlfriend when he's not sleeping with 7. But 7 likes him, and wants him to like her. So, she stays with him, hoping he'll leave his girl for her, even though he hasn't the 8 months they've been together.

So, be glad you weren't in her shoes, and had stronger will. Now you can devote time to yourself, and be open to meet a man you can be the main squeeze of, not a replacement.