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my friend dropped me because I am bisexual?
04-08-2014, 07:13 PM
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my friend dropped me because I am bisexual?
i told one of my best friends that i think i am bi. at first she was cool but i think it was an act and i guess she can't that I am bisexual. she super religious but instead of talking to me she deleted me from social media and blocked my number. how do i deal with that? she is judging me and trying to make me feel bad and being immature. how do i not be sad about loosing a friend and just move on? its just weird because we have been best friends for 3 years. what do i do?

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04-08-2014, 07:18 PM
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Act like your happy that shes not your friend any more coz shes really not your friend if she bahaves like this.

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04-08-2014, 07:20 PM
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My opinion is that &quot;she is not a true friend.&quot; The fact that she won&#x27;t accept you, and she puts religion over friendship is rude. She can&#x27;t be a true friend, because I know everyone is different but I&#x27;ve come out as gay to 25 of my closest friends. They have all supported me and only one brought up religion, but pushed it aside because we are great friends. It can be hard to deal with that type of loss, but you don&#x27;t need people like her. You must have better friends that will support you! There is hope! Big Grin
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04-08-2014, 07:24 PM
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She is not a true friend. I came out to a friend and she was fine with it in the beginning, but then she suddenly got the notion that I like every girl I run into including her. I got tired of the usual I just want to be friends when I never ever mentioned about being with her. Note to self, be careful who you tell because people always assume you like them when you tell them.
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04-08-2014, 07:27 PM
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This was why I didn't want to tell the person who has my heart right now either. She's also super religious, and most likely anti-gay. I don't know what I would do without her because she's literally the only person I can be open with. We've only met for a year but we've become really close. And I would be devastated if I lost her friendship.

But you gotta do what you gotta do. Your friend made a mistake, as do all people. Honestly, at this point I am ready for it. I'm graduating from college in less than 3 months. And we'll probably stop talking afterwards. So my mind is prepared for ending our friendship. After I graduate, I am going to find people who are willing to accept me for who I am. It's sad because college was where I thought people would be more accepting, but it seems even harder to find people who are.

Either way, you shouldn't fret over it. She lost a great person who she shared wonderful memories with for 3 years. She doesn't deserve you if she just drops it like that.
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