Girls, am I attractive at all?

[Andy]

im very sorry i asked this before but i need opinions. I really like this girl and i dont know if she likes me at all. We're really close friends.

ANYWAY, I'm kinda introverted but i stand up for myself and others. I try to be a nice person to anyone no matter what, I do volunteer work at a monastery, I believe in being a gentleman (nice guy whatever) i respect women (i dont want a sexual relationship until marriage) I write songs and poems, i play guitar, i care about my style and personal hygiene, and i care about people. Some people have called me boring because i don't drink underage (im 18) and that I don't believe in premarital sex, but idk.. I know i sound like the ultimate "nice guy" and i don't want to be boring to a girl. I'm a fairly funny person and i have a social life, its just that i have morals. If i had a girlfriend I'd treat her with respect and show her that. But do people find this attractive anymore? most guys at school are being total douchebags to their girlfriends and yet they still date. I just don' know if women find gentleman to be attractive or needed anymore, at least in high school. btw i look like this http://s1325.photobucket.com/user/Andy_C...sort=3&o=0

Im sorry to be an attention whore or come off annoying but i am genuinely curious. please be 100% honest. I really dont mind what you say but please be honest its all that matters. thanks people

[Meg]

Yep

[â™› Snow Lover â™›]

not my type
but yeah u r

[Ngan]

Yes you're attractive you're young. Girls will eventually search for a good guy like you because they're done being hurt

[Amy]

You are attractive. Some other shallow girls may like douchebags, but the girl you like doesn't sound like one of them. Being her friend is already half the battle won but don't get friend-zoned. Girls do still admire chivalry. Good luck

[Sarah]

Your cute...but honestly that doesn't matter. According to statistics in EVERY country Attractiveness is number 1 for what men look for in woman where as woman's number 1 is personality. seriously have you seen what Jay Z looks like??? and he married Beyoncé. CLEAREST example of that. Also, unless they're basic and fake, women don't like men who are super masculine-so don't ever worry about that. Id have to say the most attractive trait for me is a guy that is confident and true to himself. I personally can't stand douchbags and don't give them a chance, but they are appealing none the less. that is because they're giant inflated egos appear to be confidence- which is a misconception. an ego is a defense built from fear where as confidence is strength coming from self-love and respect . Be assertive in who you are and respect yourself and girls will flock to you!

[Babs]

No you are not a bad looking guy. And the people that tell you that you are boring because you are RESPONSIBLE for not drinking underage and because you don't want to have sex before marriage are just trying to influence you to be like everyone else. I think it is very commendable that you chose to do the volunteer work, be a gentleman, wait until marriage, and follow the law. There aren't that many young people that choose to do those types of things anymore and when someone does it is a breath of very nice fresh air. You will find someone that doesn't think you are boring over the things you have chosen to do in life. And they will appreciate you not only for your good character but also your looks.