This Forum has been archived there is no more new posts or threads ... use this link to report any abusive content
==> Report abusive content in this page <==
Post Reply 
 
Thread Rating:
  • 0 Votes - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
My wife changed her facebook status from married to widowed, should I be worried?
04-08-2014, 08:26 PM
Post: #11
 
Practice "duck, roll and cover". Seriously she wishes the world to know you are no longer around. Only you two know why. So exactly what happened between the two of you that would make her want to be a widow?

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
04-08-2014, 08:28 PM
Post: #12
 
Hi.

I hope you are not joking. If it's true, and it can be possible because through that website, because of its fame, we can learn a lot of cheating people. "Decent" women all the time are now, not only since the advent of Facebook but since Email exists, using their maiden names.

As a result, a lot of divorces have taken place, thanks to disrespect that weren't noticed by the ingenuity of their husbands, sometimes stupidity.
This should be work as yellow light for many men, learn from the bad experiences of others, don't be fool. Since the moment that you let your wives chat all the time on the internet without you being around, they are let free to go astray.

Is up to you to correct this mistake, from now on, you have to supervise her movements on the internet.
No matter if the becomes defensive, that's a typical attitude of cheaters.
Marriages that never have faced adultery or those who have but have the knowledge, religious and psychological they know that what it takes to keep the marriage alive till the end, theses things are essential: love, forgiving, comprehension, tolerance, respect and surveil each other.

Without that last condition that perversely atheists advice against, branding men that make use of it as "insecure". Those who listen to them later regret that they lost their marriages because of those negative psychologists.

Women like that, will shield their "privacy" (something that was not part of the vows of marriage) at all cost, if you don't know already, the common things that they do is fantasize about other men, masturbate in private (then are too tired for you) and exchange emails with those men, several times is not one only.
They become obsessed and they start picking upon several.

Even if someday she faces your recclaim, she can accept that is "just a fantasy" and they are "only friends". Of course that momentarily they are only friends because you are her husband, but when they get in love with one of those "friends" she will leave you for another man.

The fantasy leads to the burning desire of making the obscure dream to become a reality, many people that foster a fantasy in their hearts, if it's near their hands to make it happen they will choose the option, that's how marriages end, it's all about fantasies. Like when you were a little child and fantasized about having a wife, children, a job in an office, being medic, fireman, engineer, pilot, policeman, writer, store owner, tv host, the difference is just that their fantasy is evil, yours is good. The similarity, theirs is burning them inside, yours too.

Stop the ingenuity, become the guardian of your wife, that's vital for the survival of your marriage, have a decisive argument to stop that once and for all, and keep on watching forever.

Taking care of what is yours, especially your wife, is not an illness, is not being "insecure" of your like they foolishly say, being insecure is a symptom that something is not right and/or you are not doing enough to care for her. Wake up.




Blessings brother.


.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
Post Reply 


Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)