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Ex girlfriend..?
04-08-2014, 07:30 PM
Post: #1
Ex girlfriend..?
Honestly I don't even like typing all the details I just want to get down to the point. I was in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, for a year and a month, we were friends for 3 months then got into our relationship which lasted a year, in those 3 months we became very close, best friends, etc etc. We argued.. mainly because we were jealous that each of us were experiencing prescences by other people when we wanted to just see eachother. She made a mistake and cheated on me, I forgave her, we kept everything lowkey until we broke up a month a half after , due to an argument, she blocked me off everything, and changed her number. The reason she did this I know obviously was because she trying to forget me.. it's been 2 months, nothings changed, she is still trying to get my attention by posting things, and by posting things I mean stuff to get me jealous and Stuff I know that is directed to me, and stuff she is posting to get attention from other males to get me jealous. I have been going on , giving off I am very happy. A few people asked me about her anonymously on a website and I said "I wish her the best" and I know she's seen it, also, A L O T of woman have been giving me attention which I know is making her jealous but my attentions aren't to make her jealous.. Basically what I'm asking is, Should I just continue to give off im happy because literally everyone tells me that woman after they breakup with there boyfriend tend to regret and come back -
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Tend to regret and come back when they see there ex partner is doing much better w.o them, or should I just go directly to her and just talk with her etc, because I do want her back, we had a bond that really you don't find often.. we were VERY close and we were always happy and the best of lovers.

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04-08-2014, 07:31 PM
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she cheated on you, grow a pair and move on

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04-08-2014, 07:41 PM
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This sounds exactly like my past relationship. I feel you man. First of all, I feel that it&#x27;s obvious she wants your attention, since she&#x27;s posting super obvious directly indirect posts on social media. That means she&#x27;s thinking about you. That means she&#x27;s got feelings for you still. It&#x27;s really up to you. If you really want her back, after she&#x27;s cheated on you, you&#x27;ve got to learn to make yourself look independent and make her want you. Don&#x27;t be jealous, dot be overprotective. Be the man you are and don&#x27;t manipulate situations like I did. I lost her because I was all that I have mentioned above. She did miss me afterwards and she eventually lost all feelings because I didn&#x27;t make the effort to get her back. If you really feel she&#x27;s the one and want to give her another chance, maybe just ask her out on a friendly date, and progress from there. Start afresh. You can easily tell if she is still attracted in a scenario like that. Good luck
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04-08-2014, 07:46 PM
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there is no ex girl friend and ex boy friend. Once a friend always a friend because love takes its birth in two hearts at one and the same time and once such a love takes its birth it would not die.
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