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my boyfriend never sticks up for me HELP PLEASE?
04-08-2014, 07:38 PM
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my boyfriend never sticks up for me HELP PLEASE?
I love my boyfriend very much but when it comes to his friends getting all touchy feely with me he never says a thing to them ... i know why he does this about a year ago my boyfriend was cocky and conceded and all of his ''Friends'' hated him and even had a group chat on facebook just about him ... since then he has changed and is a much nicer person but he tip toes around his friends to keep them happy ... sometimes his friend call me names and i can stick up for myself when they do that because im a big girl and dont care what they think of me but sometimes they get ''drunk'' (they just said there drunk when there actually not) they feel my boobs and lift up my skirt infront of everyone i get so embarrassed and go red i sometimes just feel like crying ... i have asked him why he doesnt say a thing about it even though i already know and he has actually told me if i want someone who will stick up and give out to his friends to find someone else because he cant do it ... i love him so so much but im sick and tired of all this BS what do i do?

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04-08-2014, 07:47 PM
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Time to take this into your own hands. Yell at them every time, "Get your hands off me, you rape culture asshole!"

Your boyfriend needs to make new friends. These guys form group chats about him and sexually assault his girlfriend... I'd break up with this guy, because his friends are a safety hazard.

Also, carry around a chain and hit the next motherfucker who does this kind of thing to you, please.

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04-08-2014, 07:53 PM
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Dump him
if this guy cant be a man and stick up for you then why are you dating.
Tell him that he needs to pick his friends or you
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04-08-2014, 07:55 PM
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He as a man, is supposed to protect you from harm. Others looking at you is one thing but touching you? That&#x27;s where your guy steps in. Those aren&#x27;t real friends and he isn&#x27;t realizing it. They either don&#x27;t respect you because he lets them or because he, himself doesn&#x27;t respect you as his girlfriend. I say, part ways with this guy. If he can&#x27;t even do what&#x27;s logical for his woman, imagine what else he won&#x27;t do for you (including the not so important things, like he forgets to put the toilet sit down.) A man that has a vision for the future will try his best, this guy sounds like he hasn&#x27;t even started. You can&#x27;t change people, so maybe that is how he will always behave&#x2F;think, that it&#x27;s ok to let your girl be disrespected when it isn&#x27;t. Love yourself more and find a man who will love you just a much.

Good luck.
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04-08-2014, 08:04 PM
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DUMP HIM. He is useless.
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04-08-2014, 08:11 PM
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Just let the guys have their way with you it shouldn't be that big of a deal. It isn't nice to be withholding of your body. As a woman it is your duty to satisfy your man AND keep all of his friends happy! Don't be such a prude, this is the 1950's anymore! Quit being withholding and let them do what they want! They are men and it is your duty to please them!
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04-08-2014, 08:20 PM
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I agree with smiley in part, however you need to test your bf. Confront him about why he allows you to be tormented to a point that causes grief among yourself. It makes me wonder why you allow such problems; I've been confronted on many times about my allowing something to continue on account of my brother's actions towards I person I loved. The problem with some is that there best friend might be like their brother or sister. I confronted my brother about that and got punched in the face but I got closer to the girl. I did not expect either one considering the time I said it but all questions are answered in the end. The issue I had is being questioned by the girl after like Do you want me to stay or go, like I just think well I just got hit in the face and you bring up these weird questions now? If I did not want you I would not have fought my own blood.
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