How To Not Get Attached So Easily?

[Sam]

I'm back in the dating scene, and I've been on 3 dates this month. And every girl I get way too attached too quick and I think it scares them away.

This last one I went one, I got mad bc she didn't text back right away, and she said she can't give me what I want etc. The fact that she doesn't want to go out again (Only went on one date) has been eating at me, and it makes me angry.

What are some tips to not get attached to a girl so easy?
What are some tips to not get depressed/sad/upset if you only go on 1-2 dates and she isn't interested?

I'm 20 BTW

Thanks

[Emily]

i would highly suggest if you have twitter or instagram or etc. to get off of them for a few days, maybe even a week or two. that stops you from going to her page and seeing what she's doing and blah blah blah. getting off of social media will help big time. delete her number to stop yourself from texting her first. if you want to not get so attached you need to be more open minded. when you go on a date with a girl, go on the date thinking "this is just one date, nothing will come from this." that way, if nothing does come from it, you're ready for it but if something does come from it, its a serendipity. find activities you really like doing, so when you're feeling sad or lonely, you can go do those activities to clear your mind. another thing that i think will help, is finding out who you really are and you can rely on yourself and not a girl. you need to figure out who you are, have full confidence in yourself. maybe take a break from going on dates for a while? good luck.

[?]

Okay so basically when you go out with a girl she wants you to treat her the best as possible. She may be busy or can't txt back right away. You have to have patience with a girl. Girls like a little attachment but if it becomes to obsessive then it's a big turn off. Try being patient, text once in a while, go on a date like maybe once a week or even if that, treat her with some gifts once in a while it won't hurt, don't say you love her to early, within the two weeks to a month should be good, get to know her more, be close with her but don't go all hay wire of something can't go your way. Relationships take a lot of work and effort and you need to be prepared to be in one. The biggest thing wrong I can say is that you get physically and emotionally attached to fast an you are needing a person to be as attached to you as you are to them. So try and date little by little but keep your emotions in good check so you don't get ur feeling hurt in the end. Love is tough.