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How to stop feeling depressed?
04-08-2014, 07:56 PM
Post: #1
How to stop feeling depressed?
I just turned 18, but feel depressed all the time about girls. I am a pretty introvert guy at first which gets hard at times and it just brings me down. I feel out of place often and just get stressed out. I try to open up and act extrovert but just feel out of place. I work and breathe with all extroverts and am bad with meeting other girls. I work at a college cafeteria on the weekends (still in high school, senior) and like this one girl at another high school shes going there next year but I have never met her before I see her all over social media but I went to school with her sister but barely knew her either. I don't know why I feel so attracted to her and she seems fairly extrovert and a big into partying. I want to talk to her but i would feel socially awkward and online would feel like a creep. I am going to a different college but we will be in the same town so it's just hard cause I like my job but know I will have to quit because it will kill me every time I see her. I try to forget and move on and focus on my own life but sometimes it just gets hard. Just looking for some suggestions because I really want to move on from this.

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04-08-2014, 08:06 PM
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As someone who has suffered from that exact thing and has over come it, the only way i got over it was by just telling her how i feel and not worrying about what comes next. Im not gonna tell you what happened between her and me but you need to stop worrying if it will be awkward or not and just man up. Just say exactly what you want to and be open about everything in that moment. Dont hold back. Whatver she says is irrelevant, at the end of the day, you can truthfully say to yourself that you tried your best.

All that extroverted shit, you can learn to be that without feeling awkward, you need to stop being scared. After i did it, it seemed like such a stupid thing to be scared of...

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04-08-2014, 08:09 PM
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. . 1. Congress Government Court
. . Separate congress government court.
. . It is how to make the better one nation.
. . Separation of three functions is necessary for the better one nation.

. . 2. Mind Body Soul
. . Separate mind body soul.
. . It is how to make the better one personality.
. . Separation of three functions is necessary for the better one personality.

. . 3. Difference of mind body soul
. . Mind(-) is the thinking nonmaterial.
. . Body(+) is the acting material.
. . Soul(∞) is the acting nonmaterial.

. . 4. Three fun
. . Mind(-) has fun of emptying the desire.
. . Body(+) has fun of filling the necessary food sleep job money.
. . Soul(∞) has fun of running the world to love many people unconditionally.

. . 5. Order of way
. . Mind is empty. Body is full. Soul runs.
. . It is the order of way.

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04-08-2014, 08:10 PM
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There is one solution to your problems. This will sound stupid and shallow, but I kid you not-- this works.

Lift weights.

The exercise will actually lower your depression, you'll be healthier, you'll meet guy buddies to help support you through your guy problems, you'll look better, and you'll feel more confident.

Seriously, look up a beginner's weight program and hit the college gym. Your life will change.
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