i dont understand this guy!!!?

[je4nii]

okayyyy, so about a month and half ago i met this guy off tinder, we hit off well and we saw each other once a twice a week, mostly i'd just go over to his house and chill stuff and he would be soooo cute, he even invited me out to lunch with his family and was cute intront of his friends and stuff. And for the past few weeks we haven't been sexual at all (for other reasons) so its not like I'm a booty call or whatever. But lately he has a been a little bit more distant, and a few nights ago I stayed over his house and when he was asleep I sorta looked through his phone (I know so bad) but i saw he was chatting to this girl on tinder and asking her to come over with lots of winky faces and it sounded like they continued talking on Facebook after, so I don't know if they actually have hooked up or not. But anyway I really like him and I don't know what to do, I checked his snap best friends (I was number 1 for a long time but now this other girl is :/) he still is chatting to me but like no snaps really anymore and I just don't get whaaattt to dooo. It hurts because I like him and we haven't had that conversation yet, but obviously he is having some thing with this other girl and its annoying because did he really get that bored of me that quickly? ((;9

[Ola]

Well, it's apparent you pinned his interest for you at first, later on it starts to simmer down a little bit. (like you said).However the question is , have you slept with him? If yes, then it's obvious he's moving onto something new .because from what you wrote .i think he hasn't slept with the other lady just yet hence his asking her to come over.will advise you don't smother him, keep your distant from him for a little while(the whole idea is to make him find you more attractive& also realise you've got other options) because it seems he's had too much of you.by so doing you put him in a fix to decide whom he really wants without acting desperate which might turn him of even more.