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i like this girl but..?
04-08-2014, 07:57 PM
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i like this girl but..?
Well i like this girl but i feel like its hard to talk to her. She's Shy and is usually really quiet. shes always with 2 of her friends which i know. but her i seem like its hard to talk to her because shes quiet. Well im in my senior year and i was trying to see if i could even go to prom with her. But that seems like a fantasy anyways i cant dance for jack and never been to prom b4 so idk how it is lol. Anyways its hard to talk to her and i really want to get to know her but it just seems too difficult. any suggestions. She dosnt have social media such as facebook or anything that i know of so the only way i can contact her is probably by texting but she might think im weird if i ever just asked her for her number when i started talking to her for a little.

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04-08-2014, 08:02 PM
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Dude it's always worth a shot to do anything of those things.

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04-08-2014, 08:06 PM
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just be curtious, girls are almost always shy at first especially if you don't have any sort of history such as knowing each other since kindergarten, but anyway, compliment her, even just give her a simple "you look nice today" this usually leads her to thanking you and from here it is relatively easy to continue a conversation, just ask her a simple question to start with, "how has your day been?" is a good one because in the event that she is having a bad day try and comfort her, one thing my dad always told me was that girls will ALWAYS remember the bad things you did but if you are always curtious and respectful than she won't be able to think of bad things and her mind will wander to the good things you have done for her, she will remember that compliment you gave her or that time stood up for her when someone was pushing her around. as for her always being with at least one friend that is probably because she feels more secure that, she feels less "by herself" if one of her trusted friends is around when anybody else is. As with regard to texting, you will want to get to now a little before you ask er for her number, a good for getting her number is "alterier motives" find an event or something that you will need a quick way of contacting her for and get her number that way and then from there its a simple and slow process of easing into texting conversations. i have talked with shy girls and yes it is easier and you usually talk more freely with social media, texting etc because she does not have to look into your eyes and there is no feeling of being vulnerablibility (not meant in a bad way just that girls as a general rule are not as confident as boys) when you talk.

idk if any of that makes any sense but good luck.
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