Always feeling depressed?

[Fort Lauderdale guy]

I feel so depressed lately. My family life is great and I have good friends but I get so miserable at work and with this girl. I really like this girl but I literally don't know her though. I went to school with her sister but never talked to her she was a year ahead (it's her younger sister I like we are same age, 18 but different high schools) and she is going to be going to college at the cafeteria I work at (at the college). I am going to a different college next year so I won’t be able to see her (same town). I know our futures won’t work out especially since she doesn’t know me and it could get really awkward trying to introduce myself i see her all over social media. I really like my job since I make good money but I work doubles and get all stressed out every weekend and feel miserable but need the money for a car. I could stay at this cafeteria job during the summer or go back to a local restaurant I worked during the summer and start in May. I wouldn’t have to worry about seeing this girl and wouldn’t be so stressed out but can’t decide. Should I go back to the local restaurant in May or stay miserable at my current place and wait for her?

[Connor MacManus]

The best decision you can make is one where the girl isn't a factor. I was in love with a girl once and she was going to college and I had a year of high school left. I seriously considered going to her college the next year to get a second shot at being with her. I didn't do that, and that's what let me get over her. If you want to stay at college to work, then do it for the money or some other reason. Leave her out of the equation when making your decision. It's not about which decision you make: it's about why you make the decision you make. But given the fact that you don't have a relationship with her then trying to follow her around is only going to cause you more pain.