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Nikkeah · 04-08-2014, 08:16 PM

My boyfriend and I skype a lot, we're long distance so we have to. We've never actually had sex before, and he wants to watch me c*m over skype. But I don't want to do it because I'm too insecure to let loose and do it, and I kinda get loud and convulse and stuff. I don't want to accidentally squirt or something embarrassing like that. I'm also too insecure to show him some parts of me, and he says he'll accept me any way that I am and that I'm beautiful but I'm still shy and self conscious. So my questions are: 1) do guys like it when girls totally lose their composure while doing sexual things? And 2) what can I do to be more comfortable?

RiddleMeThis · 04-08-2014, 08:25 PM

Never do it over social media... it can be captured as used for memories (aka blackmail) if things go bad... he could screenshot, etc. Plan to meet up or something. When you see him it will flow naturally and not be as forced.

Livvie · 04-08-2014, 08:29 PM

Okay, first off, if he pressures you, tell him off. You don't even need to be nice about it.
Secondly, in an answer to your questions, I think guys find it hot when girls get a little wild, or have their own mind blowing orgasm. But more often than not, it's sexier when the couple is either having sex, or if he right beside you physically and watching you pleasure yourself. Over a camera, it's just for his pleasure and there are some risks, like it being recorded or streamed. Also, if you want to be more comfortable, masturbate on your own. Find out what you like, what gets you off the best. And then when the time comes and you two go at it, you can guide him Smile

-_- · 04-08-2014, 08:38 PM

DONT DO IT OVER SKYPE! Dont ever trust guy who want to have virtrual sex instead of n
Normal sex in a bed. And can be used as blackmail and he could be recording it or his firend could be present there as well.

and if she truley loved you or respected you, he would have sex with you inperson instead of havint virtual sex over the internet.

Dont trust him, even if he is a "nice guy" in your eyes, just dont ever do this such thing on social media