Please help me - boy advice!?

[Rihanna]

Please read this!
Let me set this out:
1)This guy in my year started talking to me over facebook last summer (we'd never really spoke properly face to face, he was in the more popular group) he asked for my number and we texted quite abit.
Anyway that was pretty confusing for me cos he would just pop up out of the blue every other week or so, I wasn't really bothered about him though as in fancying him. We started the new school term and he turns out to be in my biology class the first class I've ever had with him.
We just didn't talk face to face but then he'd text me which was abit weird as he's not really the shy type (I think). So he stopped texting me after abit and this is when I started to fancy him (damn) Just my luck. I realised how much I actually liked him and now felt like he didn't like me back.

2)Fast forward to christmas, I'd kinda forgot about the other guy. I went to this party and the guy from the year above asked for my number. He seemed like a nice guy and so we went on a date to the cinema.
Although he seemed nice I wasn't attracted to him physically so didn't really fancy him/get that butterfly feeling.
He came over to mine and we watched and a movie and stuff (haha). Then we went on another little date but this just made me realise how much I didn't like him and now he thinks I really do.
He wants me to come over to his this weekend and I can't keep making excuses. It's not that I don't like him at all, he does make me laugh and stuff.
I've never had a boyfriend so would quite like the experience but I know in my gut he's not for me.

I can't stop thinking about the other guy even though we've barely exchanged words. He's on my mind all the time and its making me crazy to know I can't have him.
Should I risk ending whatever I have with year above guy for a guy who probably won't ever go out with me then I'll end up with no one.

please help I feel so stuck!

[Chris]

go for the one you like of course, both liked you at some point so you can have whichever you want as feelings die hard
answer mine please http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind...827AA0HQsn

[Chris Gatson]

Here goes a tough one! OK Honestly I don't think the guy you are chasing is going to like you back. after all he moved on he probably found a girl that HE LIKES. this does not mean settle for the guy YOU DON'T LIKE. This also doesn't mean he cant go back to talking to you. but if he stopped talking to you its for a reason. i would recommend don't beg a guy. a guy should beg for you. i would chase for a girl i like no matter what!!!!