please help! Fiancé is depressed and?

[A]

Dumped me! He had major surgery and now his dads health is failing and they are very close. He's told me many times he don't know what he would do without him. Since his own surgery it has been downhill and with his dad, he's just basically lost his mind. He refuses to talk to me about anything! Have not seen him since he dumped me, but afterwards he started calling every few days saying he was lost, he missed me, he loved me, and his heart was with me. But his actions show the opposite. He has blocked me on all social media, he refuses to see me. Now, it's been 4 months of this. This week I tried to talk to him, I feel like I'm holding onto nothing bc he won't discuss us. After I brought us up he stopped answering calls and texts for like 3 days, then he text me that he loves me but its over. When I text back how hurt I was and upset, but I understood and would cut off communication, he called me and said he knows God will bring us back together. Then he went back to ignoring my texts, finally today he texts that he will see me and work this out when his dad is better! But otherwise it seems he's not going to speak to me since he's back to ignoring. I've tried to help, but he won't have any of it. I've tried to be there got him and he treats me like garbage like I don't even matter to him. He doesn't even care if I move on. I know for fact there's no one else but this hurts and is so confusing. I'm dealing with the death of a family member during this too. I could wait if I had some answers, but he has cut me out and he still makes time for strangers online but not me. What's your take on this? I know it sounds like games but yet he truly is depressed bad. We were supposed to marry and I don't know what to do!

[veronicaatencio]

My sister is bipolar and this sound similar to something she would do but I am no expert obviously. When she does this she usually needs her medication adjusted and her relationship needs to end. Being young once I can understand your heartache but I believe the best thing for you to do is tell yourself that he will always kind of play this game with you. It's best to keep him in your heart but to move on yourself when time allows so you can have a healthy consistent relationship. I hope the very best for you.

[Summer]

Now is the time in his life where he needs you most; the fact that he pushed you away instead says a lot about his character. Too bad you didn't see this side earlier. Sorry, but you'd be a fool to wait around for this man for one more second. Next time he calls or texts, don't answer. Show him what he's really missing, or he'll never know. That being said, move on with your life and find a man who is strong enough to stand by the woman he loves even in the darkest times, instead of a man who runs away from his fiance.