Is it time to walk away from this?

[KG5]

I'm a 28 year old guy, I have a business degree, I have a good job, I have worked hard to save a good chunk of money and what not so in that sense it's good. However not everything is perfect. I still live with my parents and I know it's time to move out, I was only living at home to help out my parents since I'm the only guy with 3 older sisters. I grew up in a physically and mentally destructive environment since my dad had major issues so I vowed to myself I was going to a good person and not like him.

But at this of my life, my dad is pretty much senile and bed ridden, my mom doesn't care about life and my sisters seem really stubborn (2 also still live at home, both have government jobs) and they don't even do much In the house in terms of helping and pitching in. So were not a tight knit family even though I tried in the past to make vacation plans to Walt Disney world or going to social events, they just never bothered or cared...I tried.

In terms of my friends there getting busier (while I understand) that everyone gets busy as they get older, I am busy to but I take time regardless of how busy to attempt to talk and ask how everything is going with them. I'm always the one making plans with people and trying to be social and I am a very open minded person to trying new things but people don't seem to care.

In terms of girls, I've dated girls in the past but they were horrible experiences, well I guess the only positive is that I learned things from those girls, I have nothing against them it just didn't work out in that sense (wrong place, wrong time I guess?) I'm trying to find that girl that I'm compatible with but I can't believe that even though I have a good job, education, funny, cook good food, ambitious, loves travelling and doing unique things I still don't have a girlfriend - I've tried at school, work, random places, online...nothing yet "shaking my head" my standard aren't high - all I look for in a girl is a girl with education, drive, good person, funny, someone I find attractive.

When it comes to marriage, I refuse to get married and have kids unless I know full well I will be a great dad and father to support much much much more then my dad never did for me. I've tried to be a good person and I've tried to predicate values and work hard in life but it just sucks going to sporting events alone, traveling alone and ext. I have more of an old school approach to life so I'm the person where I'd rather call someone then use Facebook, I'm a very sociable person. But when people don't seem care, do I just walk away from it?

I know people may read this and say that's ur problem ur the nice guy, ur going to be Dead last in life or something stupid like that but lemme tell u something. Life on earth is very short, I live on earth to be a good person for God not for a quick fix to party, smoke and drink alcohol (that's not my style) so to say nice guys finish last, that's not true because the biggest test is when God rewards you for your deeds on earth. Nice guys finish last stigma is just a media stigma, same with how girls should look and dress it's just media stigma. The reason why I said all of this is because I posted a comment yesterday that was not this in depth so ppl assumed I was a selfish, ignorant, isolated person...I just explained how I'm not and how I do try, im not perfect but no one is, I just don't know whether to walk away from everything I have right now.

[anon]

Why are you here

[Laura]

You sound great. Keep being you. There's not nearly enough decent people on earth so don't listen to anon. Your here for a purpose we all are. Chin up and stay strong goodluck