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Did I do the right thing?
04-08-2014, 09:24 PM
Post: #1
Did I do the right thing?
I started a long distance relationship(online relationship) from 4 months ago!At first I wanted to finish everything but then I changed my mind!
I met him about one month ago and I really loved him.It was like I couldn't breath without him!
But there was a problem!
I asked him about the future!
Guess what did he say!?
He said I'm not sure and I tell you now that I may be and I may not be in this relationship one day!I don't know anything.
Cause as he said he wants to go abroad!
He said I didn't say that I fell in love with you,I just said that I love you!!!
I needed a bright future,to know what to do next!!!He says I'm not sure about anything and I can't promise to be with you forever!I told him that I'm a girl!Not a toy!You are playing with my heart!Why did you bring me in this so called relationship!?
I asked him these questions thousands of times but he says nothing and every time we have a not so good conversation on the phone!
But it was hard for me to think that he is in my life now and then one day he may not be!
He came to see me from another city which was hard for him!But he came!
And I don't know what does it mean!!!I should say after that he went to travel with his friends!Was that really for me?I mean coming here?
At first he was calling me my sweetie my darling or even my WIFE!OMG!
I'm not sure if I did something bad that he became like this!!!!

Now,Everything finished!
2 days ago I asked him about future again!
I told him that I will wait for you till u finish ur education and find a job!
But all he said was words which I couldn't match them together!
Completely ambiguous!
He wasn't sure about anything again!
I told him that I told everything to my mom and guess what!?
He shocked and said ''WHAT?!WHAT DID U DO?!''
It was like I did something wrong!He said you had to wait till I myself tell u when u should tell ur parents!In this way you face me with your parents!
I asked him why did u come to this relationship when u r unsure about everything!?
N he said cause I liked n bla bla bla ...
I told I will WAIT for u!I'm in love with you....
Then he said I can't make promises cause I'm not sure if I'll stay in this country or not!
After all,all I did was texting him!
I told him that everything is over!U were so important to me that I told everything to my parents,but remember it was not me wanted to go!You urself let me go!
All he replied was:

''Ok,delete the pictures"

Did I really do the right thing?
I asked him these questions before meeting him too and the answers were the same!
It was like it was only the first 2 weeks that he called me my WIFE!
Or I want to stay with u,I always wanted to be with you!Cause He was my friend on internet 2 years ago and he came to me again!
I asked him these questions before meeting him too and the answers were the same!
It was like it was only the first 2 weeks that he called me my WIFE!
Or I want to stay with u,I always wanted to be with you!Cause He was my friend on internet 2 years ago and he came to me again!

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04-08-2014, 09:27 PM
Post: #2
 
Nobody can know that except for you. Based on the way he responded it sounds like the two of you wanted different things out of the relationship. The general rule is that if the relationship is giving you more bad feelings than good then it's time to end it. Every couple has their problems but if you feel like being with him causes more stress and anger than happiness then you'll be happier without him in the long run.

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04-08-2014, 09:29 PM
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After reading all your conversation with that guy, i feel that you should leave him. It seems like that he is not ready to take your responsibility. He can just give you a few moments, nothing else. It may be possible that he has such problems which can't be discussed with you. But, here is the solution, just move on. Leave him. Its your choice whether you would like to ruin your life or want to be happy.
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04-08-2014, 09:35 PM
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Leave him. He clearly doesn&#x27;t have any idea what he wants. He is just ignoring you and trying not to hurt in one kind if way. There is plenty of nice people out there that would do anything to be with you. You are nit in love honey it&#x27;s just obsession that you can&#x27;t stand a day talking with him. You cannot fully know someone from Facebook or whatever social media you used to talk to him. You have to talk in person and get ti know each other when you are close. Think better bcs u desserve better.
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