MEN: why is he messing with me?

[Samantha]

THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING WITH HIM. So PLEASE don't say that.
I DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH HIM.


My ex and I got into this HUGE fight 2 months ago, where mean things were said on both sides and I thought he didn't want to be friends or whatever.
We didn't talk for 2 months.

We play in the same soccer league on sundays, and 3 weeks ago, I saw him and tried talking to him but all he said was "sorry, can't talk"


I was blocked on Facebook.
So I guess he unblocked me

On Friday, he messaged me on Facebook, saying "you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening…."
So we were kind of texting for a little bit but then he stopped responding… lol

Why would he message me?? And then stop responding after a little? Lol


So I messaged him on Facebook Saturday and said "so since you obviously won't say anything, until you hear what I wanted to say - I don't understand why that argument (the one I apologized for) made us stop being friends or whatever lol" but he read it last night and didn't respond...

And then today, he blocked me again….
What was the point of even messaging me if he was going to block me again??
Why is he playing games with my head and ******* with me??

[Pearl L]

cause hes being a jerk, maybe you should block him too

[Schuyler]

You need to give it up completely; the two of you will never work out, so just forget the whys and wherefores and move on.

[Hurricain]

Nobody here can really know, but since you asked, here' s my guess.

He has another girlfriend now. She has insisted that he NOT talk to you, and that he keep you blocked on Facebook. He's not totally happy with her and is looking around for something better.

When he saw you at soccer and you wanted to talk to him, he wanted to find out if you might still have feelings for him. By your Facebook message, he saw that you are still interested. That is all that he wanted to know, for an ego boost. He said to himself, "yeah, she still wants me" and then he blocked you again. His ego has been sufficiently boosted, and now he's done with you again.