I facebook message him once a day?

[Chickaboom]

This guy started talking to me and we went out on two dates. The second date was more of a weekend long thing and I lost my virginity to him. Ever since he's been, still friendly, but he doesn't initiate conversation as much. I start it most of the time. I'm kind of afraid that he used me, but then again that could be my paranoia talking. I message him once a day on facebook. Is that too much?

[bravebeginner212]

He is done with you and has moved on. If he wanted a relationship he would be with you more. Move on.
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[Nancy]

You went away with him for a weekend as your second date and lost your virginity on that date? Honey, it doesn't take a genius to know that you were used. He got what he wanted, now he's done and moving on to the next "victim".

Stop messaging him. If I'm wrong, he'll get in touch with you, but if you don't hear from him in a week, you need to move on.

Sorry, but this wasn't very bright of you. Next guy you meet, don't give it up so easily.

[jon_mac_usa_007]

Yep, he got some and now he is shopping else where, sorry.

Hope you learn from this, rather than let it get you down.