Is it stupid to try and get back with this girl?

[BrunoHusker]

Okay, so over the summer I had 3 dates with this really awesome girl. Unfortunately she never called me again. That was in July. Anyway, I tried twice to friend her on facebook and sent her messages. In that time from what little I saw of her facebook page, she lost her older sister. Anyway is it dumb of me to try to get in contact with her. We both said we really liked each other, but I don't know what happened. I want to at least get in contact with her, but if she's ignored me twice, odds are she will again. Also I don't have her number. Someone did suggest looking up where she works and finding her email or phone, but to me thats crossing the line. So what should I do?

[Ifonlyouknew]

i think you should just let her be for a while. losing a family member is hard and im sure shes not looking for a relationship after her sister died.

[ashley]

ii think that kind of Crosses the line..just message her and say how much you like her and want to talk to her give her your number and leave it up to her

[Slippyfist]

Ya man wait outside her work with an axe and threaten to kill her. No doubt you'll end up in court then you can see her at every hearing and you'll learn so much about her while she's in the witness stand.

[When u know it :)]

Well if you really like her.. Message her one more time an ask if she would like to hang out.. If she doesn't reply just move on plenty of other girls out there.