Girl Problems?

[Jake]

I've known this girl around a year. We met on a facebook page and started talking. We really liked eachother and a year later we have began talking again on Whatsapp. She says she still really likes me which is good because I still really like her.

The problem is that since we gradually stopped talking she has moved further away from me and rather than only being half an hour away she is 2 hours away on the train. Im 16 which means I now have to pay adult train fares which are too much as I only do a paperound once a week. This means that we'd be unable to see eachother much.

We have both talked about how we feel and how we both wish we could be together as bf and gf. The problem is she does not feel it could work due to the distance and Im starting to doubt it working too. We both agreed to keep talking and see what happens in the future.

It's really started to make me feel down because I really want to be with her and she says she fees the same way. The problem with us continuing to talk and send love hears is that I have no idea if we're just friends or more than friends and just not bf gf yet.

What if we keep talking and I meet a girl who lives near me?

I really like her but im scared of hurting her. Im also scared the same could happen to me.

[Lashana]

If you really like her, then continue doing what you are doing. You never know what might happen in the future, between the both of you. That has always been a problem when talking to someone who lives far away, the fear of becoming distant. The problem is you can't predict the future, due to you two not having a specific title, neither of you can be blamed if you like another person.

All you know is that you both tried and it just didn't work.

Good Luck on the both of you, hope things work out and you can be together!