My trust issues have gotten in the way.. I dont know what to do?

[Jonas Babe]

I've been seeing this guy since october. I have bad trust issues from previous relationships that have carried over into this one. We are in a long distance thing and so we don't see each other alot. Im not worried about every single girl out there at his college, but just some things I've seen on social media such has instagram that has made me question. I had a habit of whenever I would drink I'd call him and go on about what I think he was doing.. When I went and visited him for valentines day, the same thing happened that Saturday night. Now for the past week and a half we haven't been on super good terms. He told me he doesn't know if he can see himself being with someone who doesn't trust him. I'm really trying to work on my trust issues. But the thing is, is he is still talking to me some. But it's not all happy like it use to be. Yesterday I hit him up and asked if he wanted to facetime. He facetimed me and the whole thing I was tyring to make him smile but it was just kind of a downing convo. He made convos about how like relationships just aren't the same anymore, he was on some "me, myself, and i," kind of thing right now. etc. But when I asked him if I should just let him go, he said "I wouldn't facetime you if I didn't want to talk." He's just very distant at the moment. He said on facetime how he missed the old me, before I started tripping. Last night I texted him goodnight, and he replied "goodnight." I sent a kissing face and he just never replied. I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I should keep talking to him acting like ntohing is wrong with me, or give him space. I just don't know what to do. I told him I want him back, I miss him everything. I just don't know what to do. Please advise

[Jonas Babe]

I have the same problem as you with trust issues; you just have to let it run its course. You need to just start trying to bring back your trust in people- its good to show worry&jealousy though, because it obviously shows to him that you still care. But for now I would give him space, as you don't want to come across as annoying. I mean there isn't really anything you can reply to a kissy face, plus he might not have wanted to disturb you if you was going to bed:3 next time let him message or talk to you first. If he truly wanted you back, he would make the effort.
Good luck x