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Should I pursue this guy?
04-10-2014, 03:38 AM
Post: #1
Should I pursue this guy?
I saw this guy a thought he was really cute. I would smile at him, but was too shy to go talk him.
The next week, I see him again, which is weird because he lives hours away. One of his friends said he though I was cute and wanted to come talk to me. I was sitting with a big group of people, so we both didn't talk much. He had to go, but one of my friends chased him down and asked for his number for me because she knew I was too shy to get it myself. I text him later in the week, and he responds like every half hour, and then stopped texting me all together. The next day he texted me first, but we only talked for a little bit before he had to go.
The next day he posts on Facebook that he lost his phone. That weekend, the friends that got his number for me texted him out of the blue, in which he responded too, but then quickly asked for my number from her because he lost all his contacts. She gave it to him, but then he didn't text me all that week.
I text him after a week on Monday and he responds, but again only for a short amount of time with like half an hour between responses.
It's now Thursday and he hasn't texted me.
Should I text him, and pursue this guy?
Should I just give up on him?
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04-10-2014, 03:39 AM
Post: #2
 
The short answer is: No.

Here's why.

Your quote was: "Who I found really cute"

Ok look, YOU didn't find him really cute. He IS really cute. TO EVERY GIRL BELOW HIM. If you were in his league? You wouldn't be that impressed, youd be desiring even hotter guys.

That's why fat girls will hit on short but in shape guys, whereas hot girls wont look at a short guy even if hes in great shape (unless he has the face of tom cruise). Or another example, hot girls wont find a hot guy THAT impressive- but average girls will drool for the hot guy.

Long story short:

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He is not interested.

EDIT: I just re-read it and confirmed my initial suspicions when you said he was flakey in the texting and stopped responding. Yeah. Hes totally not interested (but I already could have told you that).

PURSUE MEN IN YOUR LEAGUE, OR WHO ARE ONLY KINDA CUTE! If you pursue "really cute" guys, they will only 1) ignore you or 2) bang you out when no better girls are around .But they will not respect you, love you, or date you or commit to you in any way. Just to make that clear. Ok?

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04-10-2014, 03:43 AM
Post: #3
 
No. He is clearly disinterested.
Don't text him and simple move on. There are other guys out there who actually want to give a girl the attention she needs. Don't waste your time on someone who does not want to entertain you.
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04-10-2014, 03:58 AM
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If u have to question it then no
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04-10-2014, 04:02 AM
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i agree with the people BELOW
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