Asking a girl out?

[Ayden]

I'm in high school. I'm 16 and I'm a sophomore. I like a girl in my Spanish class that makes me very nervous. The love at first sight nervous. I have social anxiety from a lot of crazy stuff in my life and I can not muster a word to her. She has a twitter but I'm not followed to her. I need help on what to do.

[Sehal]

first follow her then ask her on a date with other people(so ask her to a place to go but not romantically because she might not be interested in you) then let her know about your crush when she seems intterested...best of luck!!!!!

[peapers]

First off, get your disorder under control. Do the work first, then ask her out.

[anon]

In a situation like yours, the last thing you want to do is ask her out face to face when your body is telling you not to! I've been there. Its virtually impossible to ask out a girl to her face when you are so nervous that you can barely feel your hands. There is a very high chance that you will just stand there stuttering and red-cheeked then say the wrong thing. That could mean she will be put off you forever. A good way of going around it is playing the role of a secret admirer. There is plenty of advice on the internet about how to be this kind of person and how to write romantic letters.

http://www.wikihow.com/Write-a-Secret-Ad...Your-Crush

The idea is to break it to her slowly that its YOU who is the one who has a crush on her. Some people may disagree and argue that girls like guys who are prepared to ask a girl out straight away and right in a girls face. This can sometimes be seen as a sign of overconfidence that some girls (probably most) don't like. But, as I mentioned before, for people like you and I, its easier and way less riskier to break it to a girl slowly.

Perhaps another way is to simply make friends with the girl. Although that could be an equally nervous task, if you like the sound of it, you could give it a go. After getting to know this girl and her getting to know you or maybe even become good/close friends, then you could use Sehal's advice

Hope this helps!
Good luck