Boyfriend of 6 years cheated...helpppp.?

[cutiepie]

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, with the last 7 months of it being long distance because we go to different colleges. The first few months of the long distance thing was okay, but recently in the last couple months he has been so distant and taken me for granted completely, for instance I would get 1 text in three days. whenever I would confront him on this he would always say how stressed he was and that he was sorry so I just accepted that. Well a couple weeks ago we got into a big fight over a major disagreement that we have, and he said some of the meanest things to me so I broke up with him because on top of everything that was like the final straw. He has tried to get back together with me, but I have remained broken up with him because there are too many things that are not right, even though it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do because of course I love him to death. Well long story short, it has been about 2 weeks since we broke up, and I just came across one of his girl "friends" twitter, who I thought was just a "friend" , referring to him as her boyfriend and her "baby" in many of her tweets, DURING the time that things were good between us still!!?? I feel completely betrayed and hurt, and majorly confused as to why he was trying to get back together with me and so adamant on not being broken up if he already has another girl? How does one deal with that because I am just feeling so hurt and betrayed...or is this girl just crazy?

[K A]

Dump his as.

[sheslike]

I agree dump him I know that a 6 and a half year relationship is a lot to let go of but I'm a big believer of once a cheater always a cheater...And i'm sorry this happened to you :-( hang in there :-)

could you help me ?
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[Juana]

He dosent deserve you hun. If he cheated on you after a loong time then he dosent understand true love. Keep going, i know its hard ;-;

[Strife and Discord]

You did the right thing by breaking up with him. Keep going, don't look back, and whatever you do, stay off Twitter and Facebook. Besides, you've got better things to do...right?

[Alex]

Hello, I will try to give my best advice that I can. If he is chatting with a girl on twitter, I would ask him about it, put him on the spot. If he acts nervous, than its probably a girl friend of his. I wouldn't suggest continuing on with that relationship, because trust is a huge factor. If I knew my girlfriend was seeing other guys, I would just lose it. But I would definitely ask him about the twitter situation. In the end it's your decision. I hope this works out for the best.

[ïṡεεÿøυ]

You are better off without him. Trust me my boyfriend also cheated on me of 6 years. I deleted everything of him and carried on with my life. You were fine before you met him. You will also be fine when he leaves. Understood? Now!! Stop thinking and keep yourself busy and focus on yourself and loving yourself more . Trust me when you don't pay attention to people ....They will come back to you wanting your attention. You can have any man out there who will treat you right so don't put up with sh.it ...when you know you deserve so much more. Focus on doing what makes you happy and the right guy will come to you.


I am now with my current boyfriend his the sweetest hahaha .people come to your life for a reason..They leave when they have completed their role of coming to you in the first place. Be strong and god bless you

[John W]

You have every right to feel hurt and betrayed. If what this girl says is true, and even to a certain extent even if its not, you ex wasn't faithful to you. At the very least he was chatting up other girls during the time you were still together and that was probably the reason he was so "distant".

There is no telling really why he wants back with you other than maybe realizing what he lost when he cheated on you. But one thing is certain, as much as he talks about you being together there are other girls in his life that are a lot closer physically than you are and that is almost impossible to compete with.

The best thing you can do at this point is to just move and forget him. Yeah, its going to be tough but the alternative is having a guy you can never trust, and believe me, you don't want that.

[meowmix]

You are in college. You have so much ahead of you. Don't worry about this one relationship. I know it may be hard when it comes to thinking about starting over and all that stuff, but in the long run, you can find someone who will treat you right. You just have to wait.