Guy help please!!!!!!?

[Bibe]

So there is this guy at work we dont work in the same department but we walk past each other alot. All we have every said was hi to each other. I get butterflys in my stomach everytime I think about him. I dont know what to do I am usually a pretty shy person and I am scared to talk to him. A few weeks ago he friened me on Facebook.
Also I am 19 and he is 25

[Jay]

Hi there!

It sounds as though both of you are interested in each other! I suggest that you go and talk to him, just to get to know him as a friend. If he friended you on Facebook and you don't work in the same department, that must mean that he's been thinking about you as much as you have been thinking about him! In that case, it means that he wants to get to know you better. If you think that it's easier, send him a message on Facebook and properly introduce yourself, I'm sure he'd love to talk to you. I hope you have a great day and that I have answered your question.

Good luck Bibe!

[Jess4rsake]

If you are serious about getting to know anyone socially, you must overcome any shyness that keeps you from having a face to face conversation with that person in order to determine if you have anything in common upon which to base a relationship. Facebook is hardly a medium to get close to anyone in real time. Further, you need to consider the fact that he does work for the same employer you work for and the fact that it may be in a different department does not preclude the possibility that if you did hook up and things did not go well, you might still have to see each other briefly on a daily basis in the workplace. Best wishes to you.

[leftcoastliz]

It's best to meet people someplace else besides work. Otherwise, it could get awkward if it didn't work out. Try hobbies such as walking groups & other activities through your city's recreation dept. Some community college have both credit & non-credit evening classes. Get out & attend free art openings for new exhibits. Malls may have free music performances on the weekend. Car shows, festivals, & fairs are good, too, & thrift shops, farmers markets, & yard sales are fun regardless. If there's a rock & mineral show or a cat or dog show at the fairgrounds, then definitely be there. See who's speaking at the library or bookstore. Join a political activist group or volunteer for the food bank or to pick up litter on the beach. Check online & in the newspaper. Churches & temples are good places to meet people with similar beliefs. Also, don't overlook getting introductions from friends & neighbors.

Work should be the last place you'd ever want to meet people for dating purposes, but go ahead & strike up a conversation if you're ever at a holiday reception or ask if he'd like to go out for lunch. Just don't indulge in anything alcoholic so you don't end up making a fool of yourself. Definitely proceed with caution & assume all the gossip mongers will be on active duty.