How to get a boyfriend?

[Vanessa]

I'm 25 years old, and I have spent all of those years single. I once pretended to like and date this guy simply because I wanted to have someone to claim. It lasted 6months until I just couldn't pretend anymore. I'm not unattractive at all. I keep myself up and I dress very tasteful and fashionable. I used to model and act. However, I can't get guys to ask me out or anything. They would stare at me , watch me, yet nothing. I watch all of my past friends get into relationships, get married, have chilren, and move on. And here I am still single and still no love interest. To make matters worst I don't even have a girlfriend to tell me what is it I'm doing wrong.

I don't get out much, but I do go places. You don't have to go clubbing or to the bar for guys to approach you. I have heard stories about guys approaching girls at the gas station, mall, supermarket, school, church and other places. I even had guys who started out interested in me bypass me for friends. What is wrong with me?

[James]

craigslist,match.com,zoosk are the new single bars

[Sean Doin]

Go out with your friends more. Go to the movies, mall, barnes and noble etc., anywhere where youre putting yourself out there. If people dont approach you, its prolly cuz they be scared, so that means its up to you to start a convo or approach some1

Get out there more with ya girls

[Eli]

Approach them. Say hello to a cute man. If you are waiting to instantly fall in love with a man then it'll never happen. Boys are unlovable. There is no such thing as love at first sight.

[Destini]

nothing is wrong with you either guys are to scared to approach you or maybe those guys are already in a relationship try online dating or try to go to the club or something like that ik its not the only way but it still doesn't hurt to try and also it kinda sounds that you are maybe a little to confident witch to guys can either be unattractive I mean guys like confidence but there such a thing as being over confident and also some guys might find that intimidating and also you kinda seem a little bit cocky and nobody really likes a cocky girlfriend and im not trying to be mean or put you down just the way you sound saying that you were a model and that your stylish and you dress very tastful it sounds cocky so that can be a possibility so id try to tone down on the confidence know im not saying to be insecure or something like that in facts its great that you are comfortable in your own skin just tone it down a little bit im so sorry if I sound rood or something like that Im just trying to be truthful.....

[Ez2Tock2]

You are one of the untouchable girls. You have everything in your favor, but it works against you. You intimidate guys. There is NOTHING wrong with you. You are surround by a social circle that probably puts you on a pedestal stool and secretly admire, longs or lust for you. In this case, it's up to you to break the ice with guys.
The best Weapon Women have against Men is their BODY. You do not have to be or do anything "slutty" (it helps, but not really necessary). One on One: Just present yourself to him, the best way you can. Guys are just as Insecure as Women. Most Guys are Impressed or Flattered by being approached. It is less work and worry for them of Rejection. As a girl, you have more power than you think. Just don't be a B***h with it. When it backfires, you'll be ALONE again. Also, it is far easier for a girl to get a YES for a date from a guy, than it is the for a guy to get a YES from a girl for "anything". If you want to get a particular Guy's attention, whether
He notices you or not, SMILE and say "Hi." to Him. Ask him a simple question, like does he know what time it is?
He will be glad that you broke the ice. Especially if he feels the same way about you, that you do him. Whatever time it is, comment "Oh good I still have time." He will probably ask FOR WHAT?, if he wants to keep your attention. If he does... be ready to start a conversation.
(this is called flirting) "Will I be keeping you from anything?"
Is A Pretty Good Response.
IF HE DOESN'T ASK: Compliment his Watch or Smart phone.
Then ask something about it. If the conversation runs for awhile, he will probably ask you, if you had to be somewhere?
**If you can pull this off... You say "No... I just needed a way and time for you to talk to me." He will be blown out of the water at how smooth you were with that and your confidence level.
**(rehearse this, if you think you will use that line). Now that the ice is broken and HE THINKS you are "Very Confident", If you got that far, add this to it. "You should ask me out, if I didn't scare you, that is. This is my number. (write it on his hand or on his notebook) You are looking VERY CONFIDENT to him. You have nothing to lose.
He has met someone who impressed him.
Chances are he is not going to deny you any request. Unless he has a girlfriend. In that case… Oops is the only thought that comes to mind. BUT you won't know if you don't try. You have his Time, Attention & Interest. Keep going.
The Female Body "IS" the best Weapon Women have in their possession. Guys will get "Stupid and do Stupid things" for sex or a chance at a sexy body. As erections go, No Matter How "BIG" a guy gets, its still the smaller head. And we use it to make all the wrong decisions, even if we win. Its a wrong decision. Besides peeing and making babies, "wrong decisions" is all its good for. Does this help you?

[moochy mumu]

when guys stare at you and look at how good you look, do you give them eye contact to? do you do anything when you see a guy is interested? you cant get guys to ask you out? well part of that may be you are not out much even though it sounds like you do get out of the house eventually and evidently. do you have any conversations with a guy who YOU are interested in? are you freindly to guys and make yourself approachable and comfortable enough to talk to and ask out? well what is wrong with you is maybe you arent talking to enough guys. are you on online social media sites? you need to talk more to guys who you are interested in. and there is nothing wrong with a lady asking a guy out. try that sometimes and as many times as you wish. everytime i am out i see guys talking to very attractive women esp during the valentines day weekend. if guys arent asking you out when you are out then that is fine. but if you see a guy who may be by himself and you notice him, then you should try talking to him. try to make more friends and be very good in picking your new friends. and yes i agree you dont have to go clubbing/bars to get a guy to approach you. you dont need to dress up like you goin to a club either. and for those men who bypassed you for other friends. well that may be God saying time for YOU to move on from this one. I dont know but i'd like to know how you are treating the guys who you interested in that left you. how do you treat guys is an important thing.

[Christian]

Find a good Church that has a lot to offer and will be a better place to meet others every time!