GUYS please help me!!?

[Samantha]

My ex and I got into this HUGE fight 2 months ago.
Where mean things were said on both sides and I thought he said he didn't want to be friends or whatever.
We didn't talk for 2 months.

I tried to talk to him a couple of times, but he never responded.
We play in the same soccer league on sundays, and 3 weeks ago, I saw him and tried talking to him but all he said was "sorry, can't talk"


I was blocked on Facebook.

Until yesterday, when I messaged me on Facebook, saying "you wanted to talk the other day? I'm listening…." so I responded with "hi" and he goes "that's all you have to say?"
So we were kind of texting for a little bit but he stopped responding… lol


Why would he message me??
And then why would he not respond??? I'm so confused
Is him not responding him trying to make me not eager? Or to "play it cool"? (he was never a big texter anyways)

And when him and I were friends, there would be times where we would be in the middle of a convo and he'd stop responding

And I definitely don't think he has a new girlfriend.
I want to ask if we can talk today, in person.

[Nick]

I can't really respond with the most accurate answer, but it seems to me that he is very upset about something you did or said, and won't regain your trust so easily.
You are trying to talk to him, and that's ok but don't try to force an answer. Let time heal your relantionship.
If you want to see if is trying to piss you off or something, stop talking to him and she how he responds.

[Drako]

Well, you just need to be direct and tell him what his issue is with you. You also need to tell him that you are not going to play his game and if he wants to talk he needs to give the full scoop in person. Otherwise, tell him don't text and unless he is willingly to seriously communicate. Don't waste your time hoping to get an answer or to get him to talk. If he is an ex and won't talk then, move on.

[bellyup]

I'm a guy, married now and GLAD to be married! No more drama like this. My wife and I still have some difficulties with communication but we're able to work it out with minimal damage, lol. It sounds like your ex is expecting you to say something specific. Maybe an apology or something of the sort. I think when he messaged you, it was to give you an opportunity to say it but when you didn't, he was done with the conversation. Time heals some relationships, but when a guy is acting like this, it needs to be handled outright. I think you should meet with him and talk in person, but without the signals and expectations that women sometimes have. I think he'll really appreciate your candor and forthrightness. If my wife had something to tell me, I would want her to come right out with it, like I do. At least this time around. Once things are smooth again, you can go back to your natural way of handling things. : ) I love my wife so much and I even love the way she is. As a man, I don't think it's the most efficient way to handle things, but I do think it's cute. Hope this helps.