My boyfriend is making me very anxious?

[Tina]

My boyfriend and I have been dating a year and a half. We are both in university and in early 20s. We both work part time, full time in the summer.
Our relationship was also controlling in a way. He did not want me talking to guys at all. Could not hang out with them, text them, nothing. Could not wear things like dresses (although I still do anyway), or skirts.
Recently he found out I was talking to his ex girlfriend. her and I were friends before I even met him. We were talking over a messaging service that he told me I was not allowed to have, but I secretly got it anyway. He used to have it too, and I found him talking to a 16 year old girl. So I made him get rid of it.

He was VERY angry. I deleted it before he could look through it. I WAS talking to guys on it but it was two old friends of mine and NOTHING sexual at all. He says he believes nothing I say now and he believes I may have cheated on him.

I was crying for the whole day he found this out.

Now I am not allowed to have facebook, twitter, any social networking sites. He is constantly asking where I am and what I am doing.

He even creeped thorough the internet and found an old twitter of mine from years ago. It was very personal and did not have my name on it. I used to be an addict and when I was in treatment for it I had used this twitter to blow off steam. I was VERY upset that he found it and I deleted it right away after he told me.

I am now always full of anxiety. What should I do? Is this

[monkeyboy]

Is this...? Just ends.

My experience is that jealous/non-trusting people do not get better with age or time if something doesn't change for the better.

Lack of trust can only be re-established by both people. I used to tell people to just run, but as long as there is no physical violence going on, anymore I suggest counseling for both, either as a couple, as individuals, or both. IF it is a relationship you really want.

Everyone has issues to work out, until/unless people go through counseling, we are often unable to see our own faults that cause our behaviors that are so harmful to relationships. Even were your present one to end, you would learn something about yourself from counseling.

Always up to the individual on what to do. But control by prohibition is a pretty clear cut case of trust issues, and you can't just tiptoe around them.

[Lynn]

he seems to be very immature, tell him you expect a big improvement from him
he is very jealous

[Stephen]

I think you should leave him because the person cannot give you happiness is not a right choice for you. You have a long life ahead so just start it with a new way. That's it.