wife post relationship status on facebook?

[Monika]

Recently. My wife admitted cheating. Then she said she was lying. But the tears were flowing. Then 9 days later I saw her relationship. Status post on Facebook its complicated but ever sence. She has had Facebook she left it blank so what is she saying is she still messing around or what do you think I have been married. To her for 12 years love is blind she has my head so messed up I am trying to work it out but if she is still messing around I am gone I need neutral people insight. Her family is on her side and they think its in my head so any one please help

[ForeseenBlissless]

I think Facebook and all if these other social media sites are a bunch of malarkey

[fizixx]

Of course she's messing around....that's what people use facebook for!

And if she's not messing around right now, she will again with almost 100% certainty.

[jacki w]

I'm sorry you've been having this problem....but i think i would have to say somthing may be going on...you wouldnt just change your relationship status if u didnt want people to see it.....that what social media is all about...she's either trying to upset you with it or she wants other men to know she not chained down.....hopefully you both can just have an adult conversation about it....lifes to short to just keep on playing highschool games....you heart means alot...dont let someone just stomp on it.....try to talk it out....not saying stay or leave..but the truth needs to be said...when u both got married yall became one....her actions are affecting u too..not just her...i wish u the best of luck my friend.....

[Tartersauce]

She cheated, and she probably recanted because she decided she didn't want to stop. Let her know that if she's messing around, that is on her -- there are a million ways to deal with marital problems. Some are smart enough to solve those problems and some are stupid enough to make everything worse. You can't make her decisions for her, but let her know that if she wants to stay married, she needs to act like it -- that includes presenting herself as a married woman.

[Patricia]

i dont know you, her or the situation.

If you want to know what's going on with your wife, then she is the person you need to talk with.