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Can you guys tell me did I change her mind? What did she mean?
04-14-2014, 03:23 PM
Post: #1
Can you guys tell me did I change her mind? What did she mean?
I have a friend for 4 years. Anyways I wanna establish now that she isn't a player. She is a very strong woman. But when it comes to this kind of things she is a shy type. Also she never had a boyfriend.

I started liking her 5 months ago. She has this thinking of having a christian and at the same time chinese guy as a boyfriend. I am technically partly chinese but i am not christian. I am roman catholic. So that led me to think she isn't interested... So i bottled up my feelings and tried to continue as friends.

What made me like her is sometimes she is very sweet to me like touching me, poking my upper arm for no reason, she tells me stuff like im the sweetest guy she knows, or any girl would be lucky to have me as their girlfriend. Sometimes she'll place her head on my shoulder. But wait sometimes she's pretty mean and teases me, she also ignores my invites to eat and stuff.

Anyways the other day we we're chatting in Facebook and one thing led to another and i asked her to be my valentine jokingly. At 1st...i didn't take it seriously. Then she kinda went too far with the jokes and pissed me off. Im the type of guy who can take some insults but that just pushed my button. This is about a couple of days before valentine's btw. She said she was sorry and told me niw she doesn't have a date on valentine's this was online btw. But i never really accepted the apology, the next day, i didn't talk to her besides a few lines. I could basically feel her staring at me when i talk to my classmates.

Valentine's day... We we're supposed to go to a concert with some friends. She texted me asking if i would go...and I said yes... She also told me to text her when i arrived and I did. Anyways I was still angry technically so i tried to distance myself to her. But she asked me to sit beside her twice. She didn't ask the 5 other guys that went with us. Anyways as the night went by I started to forget being angry and having a good time with her. The crowd was going crazy and she kinda started feeling bad so I took care of her. When we sat down, she told me... "So you're kind of my date huh?"

Anyways the next band came... It was her favorite band she started to tear up a little because they sang the song she kept repeating when she got her heartbroken almost a year ago. So I comforted her. After the concert while we we're walking she kinda wrapped her arms around my upper arm. So... I took a chance.

For the 1st time, I took one of her arms and held her hands for like 10 seconds. Then I let go. I can feel she didn't held mine back. But she didn't react negatively or anything. In fact she touched me again this time on my wrist. So i thought maybe its okay so i tried again...then we walked to our group and i let go. We talked in the group as if nothing happened. We talked bout the concert and stuff.

Then when we are about to go home. She told me to text her the plate number of the taxi...for safety reasons. I told her to tell me too when she got home. So i texted her and she did as well. In her text. She told me she got home and she thanked me for everything and also for taking care of her and what i did was worth a THOUSAND roses.

Weekend came... So I didnt get to see her.

Then today came...we we're about to go home, she was touchy and stuff again she is comforting me cause I didnt get the score i wanted in our exam. Anyways... I tried to touch her arm again. We we're in a group of 3 now. Me in the middle, our friend in the left and she's on my right. But after I let go... She transfered from my right to my friends side. That got me to HELL. So I went ahead of them plugged my earphones I kinda walked a little faster to hide me getting frustrated. But when we we're in our usual spot to go different ways. I noticed they got a little left behind. So i waited for them to get in my view. Said goodbye and i started walking again... Then she called my name... I stopped and she hugged me.

Does this girl like me? Did I somehow change her mind? Did that hug mean anything? Tell me PLEASE

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04-14-2014, 03:24 PM
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She likes you.
You are Christian. All Catholics are Christians, but not all Christians are Catholics. All Chevrolets are motor vehicles, but not all motor vehicles are Chevrolets.

"Christian" means "That religion broken into Catholic, Orthodox and Protestant", but in the USA in the last 30 years it has become shorthand for "fundamentalist Protestant Christian".

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