Should I Just Give Up?

[tyber]

How To Act? (Girl Friend)?
This girl that goes to my school randomly added me on Facebook in December and has been talking to me pretty much non-stop. She always mentions how she doesn't have a boyfriend and hates how people go for looks over personality. However, with that said she told me that I'm not attractive enough to/for her so she wont date me but she also said she loves talking to me/hanging out and thinks I have an awesome personality. Now, I'm not like super crazy about this girl but I do kind of like her a little bit and I'm afraid that if I keep talking to her and hanging around her I'm going to really start to like her and just end up hurting myself in the end. She seems to think that wont happen because it hasn't with her other guy friends.

She has also mentioned that in the past she's had no attraction to friends but over time from really getting to know them and hanging out, she has very rarely developed feelings for them so I shouldnt count on it but it's possible. The thing is though, do I keep talking to her and risk me just liking her more while she still views me as undatable or is it worth the "risk" to hope things change? On the off chance she ends up with someone else (She's never had a boyfriend before and sometimes doubts herself), I'd probably get hurt/jealous too. She's always said it's her dream to have her boyfriend be a friend first. Any advice?

I cant really just cut her off. I don't really want to either, neither one of us really has th

[night]

It is pretty simple, if you enjoy her friendship and are okay with that being all there ever is between you then keep talking to her, but if you only see her as someone you would like to date in the future you are better off placing some limits on your contact with her and look for someone else for a relationship.

[Susan]

No don't give up maybe she secretly likes you! If she doesn't she might eventually like you. That happened to me before. The guy never told me anything he ignored my questions about my physical appearance and I found out he did like me but was too shy

[Roseasor]

you have to get hurt at some point, that's life, and if it happens with her don't stress too much about it, you'll learn from this.. and I think you should just ask her out, if you're just friends you have nothing to lose by going out, see if you like it, if it works.. if not then you just keep being friends good luck

[HerpDerp2]

The "not attractive enough to date" is in itself a shallow statement, sounds like she just wanted someone to talk to (Maybe due to insecurities?). Personally I think you should explore it more, maybe she does secretly like you and things end up great, if not, try to move on, as if she seems she isn't worth the time or risk as you put it then don't. By the sounds of it things can end up either way and everything is pretty much "up in the air". Although if you do want to move on I wouldn't burn any bridges or cut any contacts as leaving things open can potentially be beneficial. Anyhow I wish you the best and hope things go ok. Good luck