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Did she get bored of me?
04-15-2014, 12:00 AM
Post: #1
Did she get bored of me?
I have a friend who is a girl, that I REALLY like, but she lives in a city that's far from where I live. I used to get excited whenever she texts me. But now I just get depressed, because she either takes 1-7 hours to text back, or she just totally ignores my messages, and doesn't text back until I send her a new message. When we first started texting, she used to reply 5-20 minutes after I sent a message, than it changed to 30-1 hour, and now it's 1-7 hours or no reply at all. Did she get bored of me? I was thinking of deleting her number, because I can't stop thinking about her, and it's making me depressed that she keeps ignoring my messages, and that she keeps taking to long to reply back. I highly doubt she's too busy to reply back..

What got to head, was that maybe I was just the person she talks to when she's bored? Like I'm not really her friend, I'm just a person she talks to? Do you know what I mean? She's also involved in social media, while I'm not (It's too late for me to get involved in social media), so I'm sure she would rather talk to her "friends", than to talk to me.

What confused me though, was that she told me I was interesting/funny to talk to, and she also made a hint that she likes me. But now she's totally ignoring me? She's also not in a relationship with anybody. I don't know what happened :/
I talked to her through out my Junior year, she was a Senior at the time. And text her for about 7 months now. She's in college while I'm currently a Senior.

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04-15-2014, 12:14 AM
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Buddy thats how life works! People change, meet other people and move forward in life. She may have even gotten a new job but her life dosent stop and revolve around just you bro. Give her a chance to adapt to new changes now that you are gone. At least she responds back regardless of the time it takes her, the point is she does. Stop jumping the gun or you might end up destroying a good friendship. You have to stop putting limitations on who you allow to meet also. Go out and meet new friends instead of worrying about the inevitable. Good luck to you

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04-15-2014, 12:20 AM
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This could be 3 things, the good the bad and the ugly

GOOD: She is just taking longer than usual could be the simple answer.

Bad: She is trying to win u. If u feel this way then she has already won you by her wanting to be a slut with a bunch of guys phone numbers. BEST I COULD EXPLAIN

Ugly: This is hard cause i know and been there. She has forgotten and moved on about you. THIS IS NOT THE MOST LIKELY CASE. She has new friends and maybe even a boyfriend.

I hope the ugly isnt the case for u cause like i said ive been in this situation. BUT THERE IS ALWAYS A GOOD AND BAD TO EVERYTHING. This event helped me with future relationships and move ons like these
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