Really like a guy in another state?

[Clair]

So yeah me and this guy like each other. We met over social media with many mutual friebds. I just moved three hours away and he started going to the school I went to last year. I know it's not that far but it's another state and I can't go there all the time cause I'm 14. I'm visiting in the summer though. But anyway he told me he really likes me and we text a lot. I really like him too.. He even said "we'd be such a good couple" and he said "if you still lived here would you date me" I said yes would you. He said deffiently yes. I really wanna do long distance? Should I do it or no.

[Arielle]

Honestly, it's a hard thing to do. Our hearts want to believe the other person is faithful but I find people in long distance relationships are more likely to doubt their partners fidelity (personal opinion) considering your age, your parents would have to be aware of the relationship and agree to either pay transportation or bring you back and forth. If you want to give it a chance, go for it! No one can tell you whether or not it will work, but if he can make you happy, then it's worth it in the end.

[Veni]

Did you research him to see if he is a real adult just trying to have sex with you. Have you ever met this guy? Date a real person in your age group. This could be an older adult male pedophile. Be careful. These guys will tell you anything to get you to go to them.

[Sophia]

Long distance can either be amazing or disastrous. Mine has left me alone and heartbroken. Good luck