What should I do: She asked me to leave facebook and now she's joined?

[Gerrie]

My wife found out I was on facebook. I joined because I am a web developer and at work am building a social networking site. I am not very used to the idea so I had to familiarize myself with it. In a short while I had found many childhood friends and distant relatives. I ensured my profile said I am married and my profile picture was her face. However I also found my wife's friends and occasionally dropped them messages... nothing suggestive. She accused me of "getting too close" to the girls and ordered me to leave. So I did. A few days later she joined and she has been on it now for months. She has hooked up with her exes, there is no trace of her marital status on the profile and because of this unfairness, each time I notice she is on facebook I develop resentment. I have subtly told her to leave and she has not. While I intend to keep my relationship, I intend to make a drastic decision about it. I am asking for opinions so as to ensure I do not act emotionally, or out of mere jealousy. What can I do to get her off bloody facebook but keep my relationship?

[khate]

tell her the golden rule. "dont do to others what you do not want others do unto you" its unfair..

[connbellingham]

this sounds like my ex! ha ha.

[Ana G]

Make a facebook again.And be on it all the time and if she tells you to delete it don't do it unless she deletes hers.

[nilipies]

Go on facebook again and if she finds out which she probably will, tell her you'll leave it when she leaves it. Answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...854AA2yrZD

[pharm_docs]

Neither of you should get off face book, and you should make your glorious return, and put up one heck of a stylin' profile. Perhaps you should even put a little single vibe on your own.

And you should never, never allow yourself to fold like that over something so innocent!

Sounds to me like you made the mistake of allowing her to control your totally innocent behavior. On top of that, she is being completely unreasonable and uncaring with how she's managed her profile and contacted her ex boyfriends.

You should tell her in no uncertain terms that you find her behavior on facebook offensive and very un-wife like, and lay down a not-so subtle deadline. Either you both "family style" your respective facebook profiles, or face the unhappy consequences.

[Dianne]

make another facebook and friend request her. lol

[Carley]

Get back on facebook, and post all kind of crazy things on their like saying how she is the best wife in the world, and how much you love her....this does two things.

1.) It lets her exs know shes married.

2.) It lets her know you love her, and you are making a point of it.