Should I give him a chance?

[~KiLlEr~0_0]

I'm gay and never been in a relationship. Recently this guy messaged me on a dating site I've been using and we have been talking for about 3 weeks now. We have a lot in common,it's uncanny. He's so nice and caring to me. He's confident and I'm somewhat shy. His personality is a great match up to mine. His profile picture is decent. I got curious and looked if he has a facebook profile and he does. The more pictures I see of him, I get turned off I guess. After seeing pictures of him on facebook, he turned decent to ugly in my opinion. I'm not attracted to him physically but probably only emotionally. I know I'm shallow asshol.e, but is it wrong of me to want my first love to be someone special whom I have a total interest in? We recently traded info on skype. We haven't seen each other in person or chatted on skype yet because I've been busy studying for midterms. I know he will ask me out during spring break. (We go to different colleges and the term is ending soon.) I don't know what to do. Do I ignore him now? Tell him how I really feel? See how things go after our first video chat? Give the first date a chance, assuming if he asks me out? Please help me out, thanks.

[Ryan]

It's a difficult situation, but he could feel the same way.

Do you want to be friends? If so, tell him you're not interested in a relationship but friendship is possible.

If not, you owe him a kindly worded "it's not going to work out" note. It's best not to tell him why.

[Cassidy]

your probably longing to be loved and that's why your emotionally attached to this guy, don't settle for anything you already have doubts about!! just be confident you got someone into you once and do it again! remember that you are only into him because he makes you feel good, not because you can't live without him, theres a lot of people who can make you feel good and more out there, go get em tiger

[LazyDaze]

I would say give the first video thing a chance. Pictures don't always tell the truth. Then if you still aren't interested just tell him you don't think its going to work out. Let him down nicely don't just stop talking to him. There is nothing wrong with wanting your first relationship to be 100%. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be completely happy

[ponatica]

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