How to know someone's true thoughts on you.?

[Chiara]

hi, there's someone in my class again from last year this year who i think I'm friends with and she calls me a good friend but she doesn't really talk to me (i always start conversations), she acts differently around her best friends and other 'good friends'. I tested this out by to contacting her but being polite but she got upset when I talked to her because I overheard her telling her friends she doesn't talk to me for a week then expects me to talk to her. She's also quite popular, pretty and friends with other popular girls. I on the other hand have no friends at this school but I'm best friends with one of the more popular girls from a nearby school (i am considering shifting schools). I told her this and she told me not to. I don't hang out with her because I feel like I'm intruding on her group, but we just about always have good facebooks or kik conversations. I feel like she's kind of embarrassed of me but I've seen she has friends like me outside of school. I'm too scared to invite out somewhere as well. Please help!!!???

P.S. I also asked her anonymously on ask.fm her thoughts on me - she said I was nice and that's it.
Sorry i meant by not contacting her!
and i know she or i am comfortable talking about it.

[john]

:-)

[Ryan]

ask them/ talk to them and see what they say that's the best way but not the only way I don't know another b/c talking has always worked for