Why are my friends mad at me?

[Jacki]

So, this weekend my whole group of friends went out to see a movie and had a large sleepover and didn't invite me. It hurt me because they are my closest friends. It seems that my best friends try to make me jealous at times and it is so annoying. They didn't even invite me and they keep posting pictures on social media. Now, it seems that they are mad at me but I didn't do anything. I'm the one who should be mad at them in reality. Ugh my friends just piss me off sometimes. I have a feeling they talked a lot behind my back at the sleepover, and that hurts me because I would never do that to them. Does anyone know why they would all be ignoring me and acting like they were mad at me? I'm going to school tomorrow and I don't want them to ignore me during school. Can someone explain please???! (I'm 14 btw)

[Ethan]

I have absolutely no idea why anyone would be mad at you. I completely agree that you should be mad at them. Probably just teen drama or something!

[Star]

Honest answer coming from someone with expierance. They're not mad. They're ignorant and immature. They are not real friends if they are that way with you. Why should you try if they don't? You shouldn't maybe talk to your best friend and see what they're doing this. If you don't get anywhere then I would go and get some new friends some that will be FRIENDS to you, you deserve it! Gook luck!

[Anastasia]

why dont u just talk to them? oh and remember always talk to them like nothing happend like you didnt understood that they were maybe mad at you. just act normal and if they do or say something mean just ask whats wrong like u didnt understood all along. and if they tell you what is really going on just try to fix it and try to have fun with them. also dont forget maybe they are some kind of people that dont even deserve you and maybe you are better of without them. besides, you are only 14 you have time to make new friends, and even if its not for a little time theres nothing wrong with being alone especially if you show people like thats is your desision like you wanted this and own it. theres nothing wrong spending some time with your self it makes you think more and getting really to know yourself and getting all your shit together.

[Cass]

I understand what you're feeling, trust me. All of the years I spent in middle school (6th grade, 7th, and 8th), I had "two best friends" who always pulled this crap with me. And now I am not friends with either of them, thank god. They would hang out with each other to make me jealous, post it on facebook, and they made it so i knew. One time they posted literally 200 pictures of just them hanging out. I remember how irritated and annoyed it made me. Honestly, if you know their objective is to make you jealous/angry/upset/whatever, then don't let it get to you. If you act jealous or upset about it around them it will only make them happier and they will keep doing it. I am truly sorry you have to deal with that bullcrap. Kids are so terrible nowadays. When your my age you'll look back and laugh and wish you didn't put up with it. Looking back it was all so stupid. They have no right to be mad at you or ignore you. Approach them and ask them what their deal is. If they completely turn on you, they aren't your friends. Find new ones.

[Delk]

They are not your friends. Get your terminology straight in your head. They are acquaintances but not friends. Friends don't do what they did. They do this to you because you allow them to do it by considering them friends when they are not. Find friends, keep acquaintances.