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Is something wrong with me?
04-18-2014, 08:24 PM
Post: #1
Is something wrong with me?
Okay, so this is it. I am almost 18 and I have never had a boyfriend.
2 years ago when this boy told me he liked me, I liked him for a while and stop after about a month because I knew my family wouldn't approve of it. Last year, too, a boy liked me and I liked him for a while, and stopped for the same reason.

Now it's bothering me. I don't seem to like anyone and no boy has made a move. And the boys I like are not known to me. I stumble upon their profiles on Facebook or Instagram, judge them and begin to think about them and it doesn't last for long either.

Sometimes, I imagine being kissed and I want it so bad, but I know I am not desperate. but the wait to find the one is bothering me too much. I need some action in my life, but see none.
Sigh
I just wanted to put it all out.

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04-18-2014, 08:26 PM
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If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten. Do you have female friends you could go out with? Do you talk to people at school or at work? What steps have you taken to go about meeting people?

You've gotta meet people halfway. They're not going to beat a path to your door. No one will know how wonderful you are unless you show them what they're missing.

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04-18-2014, 08:30 PM
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I didn't have a boyfriend until 19 my first year in college. and it sounds like your parents are very strict and only want you to do what they want you to do. sometimes you just have to be strong and do what you want to do. you are an adult now and to some degree you can do what you want, im not saying you should through. you should still have respect for them and all. but just cuz your parents would not approve does not mean you should not date them at all. you can be with the guy for like one date, a week , a month and then move on. that's what dating really is finding out if you could be with that person long term or not.
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04-18-2014, 08:37 PM
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If you stopped liking them because you knew your parents would not approve, then you've never liked them in the first place Wink good things happen to those who wait, just take good care of yourself, and socialize! Concerning your parents, you'll have to face them. Talk to them, politely and calmly. Good luck Smile
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