What to do about sociopath?

[Kelly]

I dated one who I learned was a socipath, and I ended it on date three after he raped me. This was over three years ago, but I never pressed charges because I just wanted rid of it. Well, I got pregnant so told him. Thankfully, I miscarried. He has tried various ways to play tricks on me over the years, reminding me of his prescence. He got some young girl, said he would go too far w revenge on me, then he cheated on her all whilr dating (she knew but wouldn't leave), then he married her on our baby's due date, which was also ex wife #2 birthday. I blocked him on fb three years ago, but he keeps popping up. One of his ex gitlfriends told me there should be a support group for all who have dated him. He is cheating on wife #3, moved them down the street from me and my husband, and her block me on fb (I never even talked to her and don't want him..he's too small anyway). He just pops up. I don't want to press charges..just want left alone. I'm shocked why turn the very stupid third wife on me when he's been cheating on her for years. Just don't want problems and its spooky how he still monitors and terrorizes me after only three dates in 2010! What should I do or tell myself to cope? Thank you so much.

[Shnazzypants]

I would create a new facebook page - no profile photo make sure your friends are aware of the situation and that they have their profile settings set to private also - so he can't trace you that way. Make sure you are untraceable. I would at least go to the police and put in writing what has happened but don't press charges - but have it there for back up in case he does something else and you decide to press charges - then at least there is a history. Try not to worry too much about him - that's what he wants - to mess with your head.