Is it even worth being friends with these people?

[Darkseed]

Recently I've been in a lot of arguments with a few people that I talk to on skype often as a little "group" and I'm starting to wonder if talking to them is even worth it anymore.

I've known the guys for 3 years, and the same things just keep looping and it's getting a bit ridiculous. One goes and cries to people he doesn't like when he is in an argument and says a bunch of lies and whatnot about what happened and the immature tards go and spam my facebook and other sorts of media. The other likes to make things that aren't even issues problems. He brought up one of my friends he doesn't like (I agree'd with the reasons he has against her) and I stopped the convo a minute later because I didn't want to talk about it long and he pulls the whole "THEN Y U TALK BOUT IT THEN" card. It's irritating because he always tries to find a way to point fingers at you when something silly happens and says you do the same. Half the things the guy bickers about aren't even issues. I said I wanted to talk about a hobby less as a group and I bring it up indirectly by saying "cleaning up my room and trying to put away this (hobby item here)" and he bitches at me and says "SEE UR TALKING ABOUT IT". The guy is just making issues out of things that aren't really problems and I think it's really stupid.

Is it worth bothering with these people? Or should I just stop going online for awhile/block them for a bit just to get a break? The first guy isn't as bad as the second one because he did say sorry and promised to not cause issues like that again and I honestly believe him knowing his character. I just don't know though. Serious answers please?

Thanks for your time.
I have IRL friends too. This is just a side group

[Dreamer]

Find some irl friends

[Lindsay]

i would suggest just not talking to them for awhile, its not worth the stress.

[246]

If every they find something to bicker about when you contact them, then no; it's not worth socializing with someone who is going to exhaust you with negativity. It's just not worth it. Life is already hard enough, and it's worse to have people in your life that do not want to do anything productive than to argue with you.

Sometimes there will just be those people that can't help but focus on such negativity. They don't know how to look on the bright side or avoid ranting. I would just stop contacting or talking to them. You've tried changing the subject and it's like it just bounces off them. Some people are linked to drama. You don't need that.

If they asks you why you haven't been around, tell them the truth. That is the BEST time to tell them since they are asking. Just tell them that every time you talk to them that something is always brought up to complain about. You can never talk about anything that doesn't make you walk on egg shells. Tell them you're tired of the drama, tired of the intensity and you're just finally exhausted. If they can't handle that and start bickering, Just say "You just proved my point. I don't like this and refuse to be apart of it."

Don't EVER settle for anything. If you had to come here asking us about it, then something is wrong and something about it is making you uncomfortable.