Should I just leave it alone?

[girl]

Recently, I joined a marriage group for single and devout Christians on Facebook. One of the guys I communicated with posted his profile about his search for a spouse as a single father. When we became friends on Facebook, many of our discussions revolved around the topic of marriage, religion, and how to approach a long-distance relationship. He seemed genuinely interested at times and at times he seemed aloof. This bothered me so much that I left the group, but he emailed me as soon as I left the group. We continued our discussions. He asked a lot of personal questions that I was obliged to answer so that I could show that I was not only interested, but a devout Christian. This lead to him explaining that he was interested in me, but wanted to see more of me. We exchanged pictures and he mentioned he really liked my pictures. However, I haven't heard from him since exchanging pictures. Should I just leave this guy alone? What do you think happened? Was he just pretending to like me?
He knew how I felt prior to the PG-13 pictures I sent him...


BabeHart...the heart and soul must be guarded at all times in order to not become heartless and soulless individuals. Therefore, any woman or man who "know" the destruction of either is a possibility should remove its barriers (i.e. leaving the group). Removing the barriers doesn't make you hyper-sensitive or without thick skin.

I pick your answer Babehart. You opened with not knowing someone's true intentions. True. But, I disagree 100% with the last statements. Love, romance, and caress is no mystery. When someone has told you how he or she feels about you, you either want to be with the person or you don't. Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Peace.

[Poopy, Just Poopy]

His hands, well one of them, is probably too busy to type since you sent him those pictures.

[devonian Rodders]

just wait to see if he gets back to you, but lets hope the pics were not revealing which he could use elsewhere on the net.

[l8tr g8tr]

LDR = no real relationship. Go to church and meet a nice guy there.

[Tayla]

actually charlie there is no part in the bible that says its a sin. and just try message him or call him to see if everything is ok

[BabeHart]

We cannot know what his intentions were, although the internet is FULL of "picture collectors" and that may well have been his primary desire...

If he's interested, he'll contact you again...otherwise, there's no way to know if his silence is due to excusable reasons or not (although it takes only moments to reach out to someone)...

You say you left the Fb group because he was running hot n' cold with regard to how you perceived his interest in you...I will say if you are that hyper-sensitive then seeking potential dating/marriage partner's online is probably not wise for you...you need to have a thick skin and not taking everything so personally...