is she dating another guy ?

[juswanderin]

ok so ive been dating this girl for a month-2 months.

It was going good we both agreed that we haven't clicked with anyone else so well, i asked her to be my girlfriend she said not yet as she wasnt sure if i was serious. A few weeks after she tried to call things off with me as i wasnt 'opening up' to her and wasnt being emotional with her. So i start doing this i do all that he asks me to do to make it work. Then all of a sudden she is talking to me less and she isnt seeing me as much. Her dad/family is strict so i know she cuddnt come out so much but on whatsapp she was online but taking forever to respond to messages. (There are a lot more things but i obviously cannot fit it all.)

Anyway, i dnt use Facebook much but i went on and i saw she liked and commented on a bunch of things in the profiles of 3 guys and 2 of the 3 guys liked a few of her things back too.

I know she can date other guys as we are not official but it doesnt mean i like it either.

Am i just overreacting or is she dating over guys ?
She said she was busy was family stuff and work, so if that is true that means she shouldn't be able to see anyone.

[anyarobinwood]

You know she only clicked "like". It took her a second. To fall in love it takes a while but to like a photo you literally just click. I like boys' photos and I've got a boyfriend and he likes girls' photos - doesn't mean we don't love each other. Love doesn't mean thinking she's "pretty" it means loving HER for who she is. She might be busy however left her whatsapp on. Just sit back and relax, yeah? It's not like she's been telling the guys she loves them. Give her time to think, if within a week she doesn't bother then move on.

[G G]

dude u are dumb

she is cheating- like seriously wake up dude.

trust no one unless you have connected with them on a geeky level.

when it comes to emotions- girls do what feels right- including if sex with another guy feel right.
most women think men deserve to be cheated on because all men are want to do the same- this is how girls think-

unless you connect with a girl on an academic geeky level where there are no room for emotions-

also - you can never ask a girl to be your gf-

you probably noticed alot of things you want to bring up with her but you got soo mad you let them slip.

brother u gotta be in control. this starts with self control- know what you want - dont let somone elses emotions get in the wat.

use your brain.

if she is not telling you everything- then you are being played- and infact you should be the player.

having the right psychology when dating a girl is vital- dont let your guard slip

the only real thing in this world is loyality and intellect- not emotional lovey dovey love