Introduced my friend to the guy I like and now she likes him?

[Tara]

So I've known this guy for about 5 months now, I really like him...we get along really well and for a while we were talking all day and all night, but he isn't very open about his personal life or his emotions. I told my friend about him and she asked to see a picture, so I showed her a picture, and she wouldn't stop asking about him. She insisted I introduce them. Keep in mind at the time this friend (I will call her Anne) and I weren't very good friends. From the beginning, she was very invasive in my privacy, the first thing she did was go through my Facebook and laughed about old statuses I had and basically made fun of me, so I wasn't fond of her. But almost daily she would pester me about introducing her to this guy that I was hardly comfortable talking to! (I have a lot of anxiety about approaching people, so just the thought was frustrating) And when I told him my friend wanted to meet him, he didn't seem very pleased, as he's very antisocial. But when he met her he seemed to force himself to act kind to not hurt her feelings. She immediately started talking to him on Facebook a ton and started sending him her art projects. We are both artists and we make prints to sell, so I was kind of upset that she managed to show him something I considered very personal and intimate before even I did after months of knowing him. She's much louder and more outgoing than I am so she has that against me. Anyways, now when she talks to him her voice gets really high and she acts super nice but when we're alone she's really really mean and disrespectful. For example, I told her that I couldn't do my homework because I was in the hospital with my mother (she has stage four lung cancer) and Anne said "Well you can always pull THAT card, can't you?" And I was absolutely livid. I don't know what course of action to take with this, considering talking to this boy was something I could look forward to everyday and now she has taken every opportunity to talk to him herself. I think the thing that hurts the most is that she's known him for a much smaller amount of time but she's managing to be more open with him than I could. I also opened up to her about all of this and I feel she took advantage of me...what do I do?? Should I stop being her friend? Should I support her? I know she can't help who she likes, and I hate to say this but I'm really offended that she would have the audacity to act the way she does with him right in front of me and constantly rub it in...Help??????
Sorry this is so long.

[awesomeness]

I understand where you are coming from about not opening up right away but its your business you dont have to open up to people. people who do open up quickly usually aren't very wise and don't have a hard time trusting people which isn't always good. she is not a real friend! you need to cut this girl out of your life! she does not deserve your support because she is not a real friend! whether she has feelings for this guy or not, if she was your friend she would distance herself from him to protect you! but she doesn't care about you or your feelings! honey you need a real friend who deserves your kindness and support! best wishes to you!

[Brittany]

You really should find a new friend. Not because you guys like the same person but because from what you've said she sounds like a really just outright rude person.