how to keep conversation rolling with a girl?

[Charlie]

Basically, there is this girl that really like from my church. I usually see her once or twice a week and we talk a bit - not lots though. I have never chatted to her on Facebook before however I really want to, to be honest. She liked my latest status update but not my profil pic (however she didn't seem be online that day) Would it be weird for me to randomly message her this about helping children's groups: hi (name)
"I am doing something next weekend so I have to help this Sunday, have you got an email about groups?"




If she only replies with basically a yes or no answer what should I say next to keep the conversation going? Should I only msg her when she is online?

[sniperman]

same answer of : how to talk with monkey in 10 days ?

[mando]

if she only replies with a yes or no, don't message back. It may not have been a good time. Conversations only happen if two people are responding. You are asking, she has answered but hasn't provided anything to continue said conversation. Talk to her more in person. That's much better than facebook.
Good luck!

[Silky]

It's hard because they're not very smart you have to use small words and don't talk about anything like current events or politics because you'll overload their tiny brains.

[avon88]

If she says no she can't. Just play it cool. "Ok some other time then. Would have been nice to have you there". If she says yes. "Ok great should be fun. I look forward to seeing you there. Then ask her another question. Anytime you want a conversation to keep going you should end your messAges with a question. That way the next move is on them. good luck

[SP]

Just message her, some questions to help keep the conservation going:

-heyy how are you?
-how's everything?
-what you up too?
-hows school?
-hows your weekend been?

Girls are normally really shy when it comes to talking to a guy, like i always wait for the guy to message me first.

[strife]

Nooooo, don't be TOO forward. That's a little too bold. I mean, you could if you know her that well but I personally wouldn't do that. You could be like "Hey, person! What's up with you?"

Of course she'll respond like "Ohhh hey, and im doing so and so...what's up with you"

THEN, that's when you go "Ohhhh nothing, I'm planning something for this charity event on Sunday"

She'll respond ohhh that's nice or cool.

Then that's your cue to respond "yes, it's going to be tons of fun. if you aren't doing anything sunday you should come. i think you'll like it"

Something along that line haha!

[?]

Don't listen to this people , talk about random things I do it and it keeps the conversation going , make jokes be serious and things like that main point is making them see your not afraid of anything that's what girls see in you

[Mel]

From what I know, girls love being asked questions. After she's replied, maybe ask her something related to the topic--you'll be surprised as to how conversations develop over just the smallest questions or comments. If she's interested in what you're talking about then I'm sure she'll try to keep the conversation going as well.

However, if she only briefly replies to your messages with one or two words, then I suggest that you just drop it for a while. You don't want to make her fed up. But, like I said, I'm sure the conversation will come easily enough once you've got the ball rolling. It might just be nerves which stop you from messaging her, and I know it's hard, but try to forget about that and talk to her, if that's what you really want to do!

As to the question about only messaging her when she's online, I really don't think it matters that much. I doubt she'll think too much in to it, and by the question you're going to ask, she sees that you have a reason for messaging her, so I think you'll be fine.

Hope this helped, and good luck!