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My "bestfriend" thinks I'm fake?
04-25-2014, 06:46 AM
Post: #1
My "bestfriend" thinks I'm fake?
ok so we've been friends for 4 years already, and right now were in the biggest rough patch right now. it all started when we were @ school. And she told me she felt like a 2nd option. last year in 7th grade I only had 1 friend which was her. and now that I'm starting to become more outgoing because I'm really shy. I'm making more friends. and let's just say I made 2 good friends this year. we've gotten close really fast. and when she said she felt like a 2nd option. I couldn't believe it because first I always put her first for the longest time ever. I always put her feeling before mine. She's hurt me these past 2 years in are friendship and of course I put her feelings before mine. And I've just had enough! I'm tired of kissing up to her. and I'm always finding myself the one to say sorry. and I'm just tired of it. She's really bringing me down because she talks about me annoymous on social media. saying that I was a fake friend. When I've been nothing but loyal. and I've told my 2 friends. And they've been there for me more than she ever has. And It hurt when she said that about me. Because I was here when her grandfather passed away and when her brother always put her down. And yet she still treats me like crap and always is negative towards me. and it hurts so much I've told my friends and they said I just need to drop her & let go because she's being stubborn & mean. and I don't think I'm ready to let go cause we've had so many memories & good laughs. but, I'm so tired.

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04-25-2014, 06:54 AM
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If she&#x27;s the one writing about you anonymously then that obviously makes her the fake friend. I don&#x27;t know her side of the story but from what you said it seems like she&#x27;s a bit of an attention whore. It seems like she was feeding off of the fact that you were her only friend and hated that you were meeting new people to be aeound besides her. It&#x27;s possible that she might feel like you are blowing her off which is the reason why she&#x27;s calling you fake. The answer to your problem: Just talk to her. If you can&#x27;t fix things then maybe she&#x27;s not a friend worth having in your life anyway

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