Rejected me after waited months (10 points)?

[OSuckerForLovex]

I am turning 16 pretty soon. It's a long story I'm sorry but I will give 10 points to who ever gives a good answer.

Basically there was this girl I liked for months but was too nervous to ever do anything. We only really talked on facebook. I asked her if she wanted to meet up and basically she rejected me. At the same time as this happened my bestfriend got a girlfriend and that got me pretty jealous since the moment I was rejected he got a girlfriend. Recently there is this girl that I have known for ages but haven't really spoken to. I was thinking maybe I should get to know her and she seems really nice when she speaks and she always says hi when she sees me. Annoyingly one of the classes we are both in she sits a table across from me which would normally be fine but the teacher doesn't let anyone talk in that class so we only get to quickly ask each other how we are and all that. How can I start to get to know her? I don't want to get nervous like with previous girl and be too scared and think about her for months then be rejected.

[Ronnie]

The first girl was probably just messing with your head (we do it a lot, I'm sorry). The second girl seems to really like you though, so you shouldn't be nervous! Get her number, text her, message her on facebook etc, and you should be fine. You've no need to be nervous, not all girls are like the first one, and by the sound of it the second girl isn't like her at all. Good luck! x

[Shane]

You can't always for see love and you cannot help getting your hopes up but you can take this as a stepping stone into learning where it all went wrong. You are young and have only reached your first hurdle: there are many ahead where you shall fall... learn and live.

Everybody wants happiness- nobody wants pain,
But you cannot have a rainbow with a little rain.